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Post by annag on Jan 28, 2005 22:04:31 GMT
was lorraine your creation fran?
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Post by annag on Jan 28, 2005 22:25:25 GMT
you I nearly poured my heart out to a stranger. i thought she was my new best friend we were drinking and laughinng dancing and puking. I cant believe she wasnt real.
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Carmen
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2 boys - 5 and 23 months - recovered(but still on AD's)
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Post by Carmen on Jan 29, 2005 4:37:44 GMT
I came in to say hi but you must be all in bed - Oh well, looks like I get the sexy waiters all to myself!!
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Post by annag on Jan 29, 2005 11:06:35 GMT
I'm sorry girls but me and the waiter were alone and he is only human.
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Post by wendabell on Jan 29, 2005 17:20:12 GMT
right what times the stripper coming ;D And you lot this place is a bloody mess ive onlt just come in to get my vibrator out of me locker and look theres empty cider bottles chocky wrappers and pizza boxes and i doo hope that creamy substance on the floor is ice cream or their will be trouble. Now which way is it to the jacuzi and steam room cor blimey this place is like dr whos tardis............................ oh their it is next to the mini barr.............i like it here might be here soaking for some time.....................ah massage beds what times the massuer coming oh er missus...................hey whats this..............................................oh i thought i was alone who are you? ? ahhhhhhhh yes just there ohhhh ahhh yesss mmmmnnnnn............ ;D
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banana
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The good days are back!!!
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Post by banana on Jan 29, 2005 18:35:04 GMT
I've made an observation - you lot arent getting it enough!!
Although I must admit im going through a drought to. Twice since isabelle has been born and im a self confessed nympho. It kills me that im too tired or its too late or we havnt got any contraceptives in the house when the notion does take me ( note to self - buy some condoms ). Dont want to take the pill while on anti D's cos no-one seems to be sure if it can affect the recovery process.
Also, bit of an awkward question but have to ask someone. Does anyone feel like they are different down there, i know a baby has come out of me, but I feel like I have been stitched back up wrong. When I am sitting up straight I feel like i have a tight pulling sensation sometimes, just uncomfortable. Im a bit embarrased to get a doctor to look at me. Just imagine " excuse me but I think my fanny might have been put back together incorrecly, could you have a look and tell me what you think? " I would rather eat yellow snow than go through that! It hasnt really hurt when having sex but it just feels like it isnt right and can be uncomfortable.
I bought richard the kama sutra for his birthday but to be honest Im too worried about splitting open by trying something a bit different if im not together properly.
So there, now you can all have a giggle at my embarrasing thing I have.
Banana x
Please say this is a normal feeling cos I just dont think I can bear to have a doctor peering at me.
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Post by wendabell on Jan 29, 2005 19:43:42 GMT
yellow snow oh you make me belly chuckle. Well you havnt long had a bab and ok i am going to be embarrasing so bare with me...... After my first i had a vaginal tear and an episiotomy well hours in surgery trying to find out where the hec all the blood was coming from and my hole being streached more than the girth of a babies head at one point i thought while on the op table that the surgen was going to dissapear up there.The next two births i had an elective episiotomy to prevent tearing and after all three it took me abot 9 months before that lumpy area where they sewn you up the scar tissue became just a soft are again and not sore to the touch,yep it pulled like crazy for me especially after the first one i was sewn up too tight and after a consultant telling me i was basically frigid against letting me hubby up there that was bull i couldnt even get a tampon (small)up there,i think they were scared of me suing as i was in a mess and lost lots of blood.but anyway the embarrasing thing was i had to put these cones as they called them inside me well lana basically they were vibrators without the vibrating of differing girths and i had to lay on the bed for hours with these things inserted.....mmmmmnnn memories. Anyway hunny its quite natural to feel sore and uncomfortable after stiches for quite some months.My lil un is now 15 months and it was onlt when she was 1 that i felt the scar tissue had gone but as to our pre labor shape down there forget it you will never have that cute little fluffy again its been streached out of all proportion and never regain its shape.If you are really worried how about talking to your hv?
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banana
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The good days are back!!!
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Post by banana on Jan 29, 2005 20:06:12 GMT
its ok if you did laugh, i was laughing myself cos i was imagining if it was someone else writing it and it would have made me giggle to read.
I know its gonna take time to heal and I know I will never return to normal ( ho hum ) - I just hope im not a total bucket!! Im 21 - my vagina should reflect that!!!
Maybe it would be worth just checking at the docs though, what if the have stitched something up wrong. I only had a 2nd degree tear so surely they didnt have to much to work with - im just to embarrased to say it to a doc, much easier to laugh about it on here instead.
Banana x
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Post by annag on Jan 29, 2005 20:16:10 GMT
He was great Jennie I recommend it but not really good to share is it. Lana I've had a bit of trouble re the stitches and have ended up at a perenial clinic which is fun. I would pluck up the courage and say something if I were you even if there is a problem you could get treatment sooner rather than later. It is bloody humiliating in fact I didn't attend the last appointment but the advice she gave at the first one was very good.They told me when I had my last child that my fanny was like old leather boots as I'd had that many stiches how awful is that. Yes you can all laugh at that I don't mind.
anna
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Post by lorraine on Jan 29, 2005 20:31:21 GMT
yeah i bet it is ,anyway im stopping here tonight as hubby has turned into a raving loony, do u mind girls if i camp out here
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Post by annag on Jan 29, 2005 20:33:33 GMT
no cool lorraine hang out in here just don't touch our stuff right sit in the corner over there .
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Post by francoise on Jan 29, 2005 20:35:44 GMT
yeah and dont try and pinch my mates ok lorraine , or the waiters
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Post by wendabell on Jan 29, 2005 20:38:41 GMT
hi im up for a sesh in the shack lana did my post help you or are you still laughing at my therapy i had for my problem down there.honest it was true and honest it was embarassing too.big white plastic things they were.yuk
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Post by wendabell on Jan 29, 2005 21:05:45 GMT
so fran its you and me then for the sex shack tonight..where is everyone
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Post by francoise on Jan 29, 2005 22:08:56 GMT
its quiet tonight so maybe everyone is with their hubbies ,mine is watching collateral,i dont like films like that though , yeah ill keep popping in here to see whats happening. francoise
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