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Post by molliesmummy on Apr 13, 2008 19:33:48 GMT
me and df had sex thursday evening, and now, its as if i can barely move. at the time it was sortof painful, i found most part of it uncomfortable- im just 4 months into my second pregnancy now, and the only way i can describe it is a big mix of chaffing, over all pain, and my god it looks huge down there. im thinking of going to the rapid surgery at the doctors in the morning which means no appointment neccissary, but as time goes by, its getting worse. ive found a spot which seems to be painful too, but df is very clean and isnt the type to stray so it cant be an sti. was thinking hospital, as it hurts down there when i go to pick mollie up. or move in general. im absolutely baffled. and all achey all over too, whether this can be linked or not i dont know. ive not long been out of hospital, tbh i think it was down to being worked up with things at home... but this is scaring me. i got df to have a look under the bonnet as he joked, and even he said things looked wrong down there. it cant be the stitches form the first birth popping open can it? mollie is 8months now. they would have healed ages ago right?
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Post by winegirl on Apr 13, 2008 21:00:18 GMT
Yeah they would have healed in the first few weeks! Could have just been that he accidently hit a spot a bit roughly. That has happened to me a couple of times in the past and i have been sore fore days after and even bled a little. But i suggest that yes, you do go to the rapid surgery in the morning, i know its a wierd thing to discuss with your gp but the quicker you get it checked out the quicker you can put your mind at rest.
Sorry dont really have anything else of use to offer. Let us know how you get on with docs hun?
WG x
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Post by cheshire on Apr 14, 2008 15:17:31 GMT
Molliesmummy - how did you get on? x
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Post by winegirl on Apr 14, 2008 15:28:34 GMT
Hi Rachel
Did you get to the docs? If you get chance let us know how it went babes xx
WG x
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Post by littlelotty on Apr 14, 2008 19:59:20 GMT
Hi Rachel
How are you today - let us know when you get a minute.
Thinking of you.
LittleLotty xx
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Post by molliesmummy on Apr 15, 2008 13:34:02 GMT
they said they couldnt see me and to make an appointment. but its not sore anymore, it gets sore on occasions, but im ok walking now lol but it still looks odd... i dont know what to do the appointment is like two weeks away! what if i get an infection or something??? it really doesnt look right...
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Post by littlelotty on Apr 15, 2008 15:33:25 GMT
Hi Rachel
That is a very long wait for an appointment - is there anyway of getting one quicker?
Let us know what happens
Take Care
LittleLotty xx
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Post by winegirl on Apr 15, 2008 18:06:50 GMT
You got an NHS walk in centre near you? I always go there if its not life threatening but the gp cant see me quickly enough...
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Post by southerngirl on Apr 20, 2008 18:11:17 GMT
Just a thought but it may be a touch of thrush. Just another idea. Liz x
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Post by monica on Apr 24, 2008 16:03:56 GMT
Hi
Without being too graphic but sometimes if not well lubriciated sex can leave you really sore. Can you get an appt - say it's an emergency, espcially if you're pregnant. Unfortunately often you have to really push to get an appt.
All the best
Monica
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Post by monica on Apr 24, 2008 16:04:38 GMT
Just an afterthought - can you call your maternity unit - often they're really clued up and keen to see you asap.
Monica
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Post by molliesmummy on Apr 28, 2008 20:40:48 GMT
sorry for not replying, i always forget theres more to this site than the dairy section... but my appointment is tomorrow and ill be discussing this problem, as well as other things too.. im really nervous, its like, ive never discussed sex with a doctor before, and don't want to be looked down upon because of my age..
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Post by monica on May 2, 2008 15:18:23 GMT
Hi
How did your appt go? How are you feeling> Honestly, I think most drs have seen it all and won't bat an eyelid, but I do understand your nervousness. I hope it went well.
Monica
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Post by winegirl on May 2, 2008 17:17:49 GMT
Hi Rachel
Yes how did it go? I know discussing things like this with your GP is hard... When I was trying to conceive I had to see my GP as I was diagnosed with PCOS and he was talking abut examining my cervix with my fingers and looking at mu mucus etc.. Really made me go red - but he wasnt bothered!
Hope it went ok??
WG xx
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Post by molliesmummy on May 15, 2008 20:18:49 GMT
sorry ive left it so long, but at the appointment the doc found that bean didn't have a heartbeat and sent me for a scan and ive had it removed since but i never found out what was wrong, we all just focused on the baby.... i just cant have sex anymore. i go to get going so to speak, and nothing. it starts hurting then. im going to get it checked out and have a chat with the doc in a couple of weeks i think- i don't have to have sex in the meantime lol its just then, i can make sure im ok .. after the op... i have to book an appointment/check up for in a couple of weeks time so...
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