Post by francoise on Dec 23, 2004 2:55:02 GMT
hi girls
Its 2.30am , been in bed for a few hours but couldnt sleep atall , kept on trying to but my mind is so busy tonight , i keep thinking of life and death and regrets .
One of my main regrets in life is not killing my dad with a knife when i was really young , i have dreamt about it but i wish i had really done it , im not saying im hung up on the subject , i think i didnt ge tthat much rubbish in my head over it but maybe i did and i dont know what it is , anyway thats one of my regrets , there are so many others aswell .
some of them are being horrible to people , i wish i hadnt now and some of my regrets are being nice to people which crapped on me after . its wierd isnt it life .i hated pni but its brought something to my mind that wasnt there before and that is examining my behaviour and my thought process and why i do what i do and why i care about certain things , i hate the para noia though , of course i do and the death thoughts , the physical stuff did my head in .
i thought i was better but im not , im as mad as a hatter , not mad like i was before but mad in the way i deal with things now , its a strange time for us with pni , i find no answer , just waiting and waiting for things to improve , they have i know in lots of ways but
i still think constantly about everything and strange things , im not depressed but its like i missed something very important about life and appreciation and its now that im finding out what it is but i have to make sense of it , i have an inner strength that i never knew i had but lots of weaknesses that have showed up which i must of ignored for so long and didnt even thinkabout them , i buried my head in the sand and tried to be a normal person when all the time i was a fake , now im being me , since the baby this is me and warts and all , the pni is painful and heartbreaking , i sound so positive and yes i am because i get alot of support but take that away and im nothing without it ,
i have relied on you all and my nurse and my h,v to lead me to peace of mind which is happening but cant be finished with until i understand the my feelings towards others and be a genuine person to my friends , its obvious that others are going to think this is just any old chat room and we have a laugh but i think we have bonded on such a high level that we are a supportive family of women that need each other around and we all play our different roles , i could name you all and say what those roles are but everybody knows them , its like veritee , im surprised that she is as considerate as she is considering her past , she should be able to write whatever she likes without question , what rules can you a[pply to women who want to die or think they are going to harm the children they love or think they are going to die from a terrible illness , in those circumstances you do what you have to and say what you ahve to get them through , how can you apply rules to women whoare struggling with depression and a traumatised past ,,its ludicrous to think veitee is under any kind of pressure not to tell her own real life story to the women that care so deeply about her and who are desperate to support the woman that has maybe saved their lives , i know i wouldnt be living in this house now if it wasnt for this forum , who knows where i would be and in what state , amybe i would of gone over the edge , i suspect i would of ,.
I was very very easily influenced by the girls on this site when i first came on , its simple anough reason why , its because i wasnt used to such care and compassion and people who actually wanted to listen to ME of all people , i couldnt get over it , so i thought well if they are bothering about me then the least i could do in a respectful way is to listen to them with an open mind which i did and it helped me so much , so quickly to , i love the girls on here and i must endeavour to keep showing them my gratitude and support them for how ever long i can .
i do mess about and i do get soppy , lots of that on here , some of you are so funny which is the best laugh sometimes , some of you are serious upto a point and thats so handy at the right times which it always is without fail.
i started this thread to talk about my thoughts and i end up talking about how much i care about the girls here which in a way is my thoughts too.
anyway its the middle of the night and i now feel like i maybe able to sleep , thanks for reading this ,
love francoise
Its 2.30am , been in bed for a few hours but couldnt sleep atall , kept on trying to but my mind is so busy tonight , i keep thinking of life and death and regrets .
One of my main regrets in life is not killing my dad with a knife when i was really young , i have dreamt about it but i wish i had really done it , im not saying im hung up on the subject , i think i didnt ge tthat much rubbish in my head over it but maybe i did and i dont know what it is , anyway thats one of my regrets , there are so many others aswell .
some of them are being horrible to people , i wish i hadnt now and some of my regrets are being nice to people which crapped on me after . its wierd isnt it life .i hated pni but its brought something to my mind that wasnt there before and that is examining my behaviour and my thought process and why i do what i do and why i care about certain things , i hate the para noia though , of course i do and the death thoughts , the physical stuff did my head in .
i thought i was better but im not , im as mad as a hatter , not mad like i was before but mad in the way i deal with things now , its a strange time for us with pni , i find no answer , just waiting and waiting for things to improve , they have i know in lots of ways but
i still think constantly about everything and strange things , im not depressed but its like i missed something very important about life and appreciation and its now that im finding out what it is but i have to make sense of it , i have an inner strength that i never knew i had but lots of weaknesses that have showed up which i must of ignored for so long and didnt even thinkabout them , i buried my head in the sand and tried to be a normal person when all the time i was a fake , now im being me , since the baby this is me and warts and all , the pni is painful and heartbreaking , i sound so positive and yes i am because i get alot of support but take that away and im nothing without it ,
i have relied on you all and my nurse and my h,v to lead me to peace of mind which is happening but cant be finished with until i understand the my feelings towards others and be a genuine person to my friends , its obvious that others are going to think this is just any old chat room and we have a laugh but i think we have bonded on such a high level that we are a supportive family of women that need each other around and we all play our different roles , i could name you all and say what those roles are but everybody knows them , its like veritee , im surprised that she is as considerate as she is considering her past , she should be able to write whatever she likes without question , what rules can you a[pply to women who want to die or think they are going to harm the children they love or think they are going to die from a terrible illness , in those circumstances you do what you have to and say what you ahve to get them through , how can you apply rules to women whoare struggling with depression and a traumatised past ,,its ludicrous to think veitee is under any kind of pressure not to tell her own real life story to the women that care so deeply about her and who are desperate to support the woman that has maybe saved their lives , i know i wouldnt be living in this house now if it wasnt for this forum , who knows where i would be and in what state , amybe i would of gone over the edge , i suspect i would of ,.
I was very very easily influenced by the girls on this site when i first came on , its simple anough reason why , its because i wasnt used to such care and compassion and people who actually wanted to listen to ME of all people , i couldnt get over it , so i thought well if they are bothering about me then the least i could do in a respectful way is to listen to them with an open mind which i did and it helped me so much , so quickly to , i love the girls on here and i must endeavour to keep showing them my gratitude and support them for how ever long i can .
i do mess about and i do get soppy , lots of that on here , some of you are so funny which is the best laugh sometimes , some of you are serious upto a point and thats so handy at the right times which it always is without fail.
i started this thread to talk about my thoughts and i end up talking about how much i care about the girls here which in a way is my thoughts too.
anyway its the middle of the night and i now feel like i maybe able to sleep , thanks for reading this ,
love francoise