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Post by cheshire on Dec 12, 2005 10:52:10 GMT
Hi Michelle
I'm so glad your friends are supporting you at the moment. I too found friends who didn't really know much about PNI (and didn't have their own children, actually) to be really helpful and supportive. Friends with children tended to make comparisons with their own experience and tried to offer advice about 'how better to cope' which didn't help at all with the physical symptoms or the old self esteem. Other friends without kids tended to just get stuck into the practical side of helping and taking me out on a regular basis for a change of scene -even sometimes drive me to the GP.
Anyway, just glad you've got some support
Hopefulx
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Post by monica on Dec 13, 2005 14:32:03 GMT
Hello Michelle
How are you feeling today? How's Madison? How did it go at the drs? Just caught up on your diary. I cannot believe your ex. He sounds so selfish, immature and inconsiderate.
You really are doing so well and you should be proud of yourself as I think you are so strong. This must be such a diffiult time for you. I'm so pleased you have good friends to support you.
Take care
Monica
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Post by cheshire on Jan 10, 2006 18:15:08 GMT
Hi Michelle,
I was just wondering how you and Madison were getting along?
Hopefulx
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Post by michelleh on Jan 11, 2006 16:23:46 GMT
Hi all, well i had a bit of time and thought i would pop on to tell you the update...sorry i havent been on much but i havent been well enough. Anyway everything is just the same i still have my good and bad days adn the only thing that gets me through is my little girls smile, she is doing so well. I have got some pills from the doctor something for muscle relaxation or something like that, they are helping a bit but not fully and i am so tired all the time. As for my ex well he hasnt changed giving me mixed signals and then when i get angry at him he just turns it around on me and i end up sitting in the corner crying.. new years eve well ended up fighting with him not arguing fighting, he threatened to take my little girl away from me and i just flipped it took 3 people to get me off him...prob shudnt have done that but he says he has forgiven me. I am just getting on with things at the moment trying not to let him bother me and just taking things one day at a time. I better go madison needs feeding, will speak to you all soon and thank you so much for the advice you have all given me and i hope you all are well and have a great 2006.
love Michelle
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Post by cheshire on Jan 13, 2006 0:55:36 GMT
I hope 2006 is your year too
You sound amazing in how you cope Michelle
Lots of lovexx
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Post by michelleh on Feb 17, 2006 0:35:17 GMT
Hi all, well i had a bit of time and thought i would come on and update you all as to how i am getting on.
Well where to start, i think i am getting better i am now having more good days than bad days. My ex comes round everyday and helps me with Madison so i can have a rest or do the housework without having to attend to her all the time. We are getting along alot better he has helped me through this so much. Even the other day i was so ill i think i had food poisoning and he stayed all day from when Madison woke up till she went to bed at night he looked after her and me he then came round the morning after before she woke up for her morning feed. Seems weird, him being nice after everything that has happened. Ive also started taking Madison swimming, it gets me out of the house for an hour or so and helps me relax to. The only thing in my life thats bad recently is the fact i have to move out by the 25th feb (my birthday) and i have no where to live, the soonest i can get an appointment with the housing authority is the 28th so till then im stuck no where to go and no one in authority seems to care. The headaches seemed to have easied as each day gets better, i can actually go days without having to take any pain killers at all. I hope everyone is doing well and i thank you all for your advice. Lots of love take care Michelle and Madison xxxx
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Post by cheshire on Feb 17, 2006 18:30:23 GMT
Hi Michelle
It's lovely to hear that things are going well for you..and that you are getting the support too.
Let us know how you get on with finding a place to live
All the best Hopefulxxx
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Post by hannah457 on Mar 26, 2006 11:00:50 GMT
happy mothers day love hannah xx
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