Yes but this is a forum about sharing our experiences on the forum so that we help each other.
You told me what happened to you but sometimes it takes telling the story time and time again and to many different people before you understand what it means to you and all aspects.
I am still telling my story 16 years later and I learn something new every time.
Anyway as to this section I think we have all tried
and I include you in this Kate as you say with sincerity that you 'I wish i could explain myself better'
but we really do not understand what you are trying to say or what you want us to change on this section.
Every time we think we have a solution - such as your suggestion for different sections that no one objected to - it seems you still say we don't hear you.
Perhaps what you want us to hear is how horrible your experience was for you and how unfair that you were a victim of this and had to experience it and nothing to do with the forum
I just don't know.
You say you have some kind of medical background and you are now well so if so as you have had PP too and their is no suitable PP forum - why do you not consider starting one
I will help you if you like - it really is not that difficult and I will put a link to it as I do all other relevant forums??
We also do not understand why you feel any of us have been 'vicious' or 'twisted' anything you say.
I accept that this is how you are reading what is going on, bit I am not seeing this happening at all, just a lot of people trying to understand and give their point of view
My thoughts now is that this section is causing so much upset and only two people have used it for support - yourself Kate and Natalie - that I feel now that the best thing to do is what my management committee suggested as an alternative ..
Is to delete the section.
I do think Kate that you are reading so much into everyones responses to you that just is not there.
We really are not against you and we have really tried to understand what you are saying
but unless you feel heard you will not believe this - and you do not feel properly heard.
But what I do hear you saying clearly though is we can not run this section in such a way that you would feel that PP sufferers would be safe using it?
So all I can now suggest as Natalie seems to agree with you on this ..
Is we close section altogether.
we tried but could not agree on a formula that we could both provide and those with diagnosed PP could agree upon
So rather than having any more misunderstanding I feel that perhaps the management are right and we should close this section now
What do others think?
Veritee