elspeth
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Post by elspeth on Jul 25, 2008 10:02:37 GMT
Shopping is a horrid! I hate it and always forget something at the mo, and your fears are not pointless, we are all in the same boat really and thats one thing that actually helps me cope, the other people on here actually do know what I am on about.
Hope you have a better day xx
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elspeth
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Mum of 4, aged 15,10,3 and 6mths
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Post by elspeth on Jul 26, 2008 11:56:31 GMT
Sounds like its a better day Im terrified of going parties like that - if you do go I hope you all have a great time! xx
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Post by winegirl on Jul 28, 2008 20:27:43 GMT
Hi Sam
Moey is a pain in the butt for all of us at the moment I think! I know its the one thing that is really stressing me out!
Cant believe you can get 4 hour naps out of your kids! I only ever manage half an hour with my LO! Soooo jealous!!
How did the rest of your weekend go??
WG xx
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elspeth
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Mum of 4, aged 15,10,3 and 6mths
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Post by elspeth on Jul 29, 2008 11:30:40 GMT
Im terrified of getting preg again too! But I am glad to hear that you think your bonding well with the LO's E
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Post by winegirl on Jul 30, 2008 7:55:18 GMT
Hi Hun
I think bereavement counselling is exactly what Lee needs babes. He probably wont believe that it is all affecting him as much as it is and so will think he doesnt need it, but he does need some help for his sake and yours.
I really feel for you guys being so hugely affected by it. Is it something you could talk to him about in a few weeks when he is feeling a bit better??
WG x
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Post by sianyc on Jul 30, 2008 11:35:53 GMT
Money worries are the worst sort I think and I get in a right panic over it all the time. I remind myself it won't always be this bad as soon there'll be no childcare costs and I won;t have debts that we built up. Not much help but it does calm me down a bit. That and a cheap bottle of lager lol
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Post by winegirl on Jul 30, 2008 15:20:08 GMT
Hi Sam
What are frosen bananna fingers?? They sound like an awesome idea!
Sod having a spritzer tonight - have a glass of wine without the soda! You deserve it - and if you can throw in some choccie too...
I am funny too about paracetamol with my LO, cant see them constantly having it can be any good but I do give it to her when she has a temperature etc...
Might have to look at this frozen bannana finger idea..
WG xx
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Post by winegirl on Jul 30, 2008 15:57:29 GMT
Right - thats me on a fruit freezing frenzy then... Great Idea!!! Thanks x TBH I wouldnt know what to do with a reuseable nappy either! At least your Lee is teaching them something... LOL about the coccy - i get paid tomorrow too so was considering swiping one of my LO's milky bars tonight...
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Post by winegirl on Jul 31, 2008 8:14:37 GMT
Oh hun, you were up late last night. I think you and Lee have done really well to share how you feel with each other though and think this could really help you.
Sorry wasnt about myself, my internet at home has died...
How are you feeling this morning? Any lighter for getting stuff out?
WG x
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Post by sianyc on Jul 31, 2008 11:37:07 GMT
Hey
It's great that he's going to get some counselling lovely and you shouldn't feel like you've failed him. It's better that somebody trained in helping talks it through with him and you can be there in case he needs you as well. I rarely talk to my oh about PNI as he finds it upsetting and then feels redundant. Plus he's not much help unless it's practical help anyway.
Re war of the Worlds - My eldest (4) thinks scary films are fab and her and the little one (2) watch Harry Potter and Spiderwick Chronicles all the time! Persoanlly, I don't see the problem with fims like that. I hate horrors and gory thrillers so pretty much anything I'll watch, they like
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Post by sianyc on Aug 1, 2008 11:00:54 GMT
I had the IUS fitted after my youngest and totally crapped myself a few months later when my periods disappeared. Did at least2 tests over about 6 months cos they kept appearing and then not. My sil had the implants ebfore she had kids and her periods completely went - straightaway too
Crossing everything for you x
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Post by winegirl on Aug 1, 2008 13:18:30 GMT
Hi Hun
How did the test go??
Siany is right the coil can do alsorts of strange things to your cycle so try not to worry. Having said that i would be pooing it too...
How you doing this afternoon?
WG x
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Post by talkingincircles on Aug 2, 2008 14:07:27 GMT
Hi Sam
Havent read through your diary yet (i will get around to it but difficulty foccussing long enough atm), just wanted to come and say thankyou for writing in mine.
Hope LO feels better soon.
The roast lamb,chips and gravy has made my mouth water.
TinC
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Post by winegirl on Aug 2, 2008 15:30:20 GMT
Hi Sam
Roast lamb is my FAVOURITE! Very jealous....
A kitten sounds like a lovely idea! I guess the thing with cats is that they are quite independent and dont need that much doing for them, i think your LO will love it!!
Enjoy your dinner x
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Aug 2, 2008 19:47:48 GMT
Hey hun x
I cant cope with one kid, let alone 3 and pets! LOL x I only work full time for a break from it all! x
Fingers crossed for Lee's interview on Monday! What time is it? I really hope it goes ok for you guys.
You up to much tonight??
WG x
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