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Post by winegirl on Aug 28, 2008 7:41:33 GMT
Oh hunny you really do just need a break...
You sound like me, I get worked up and feel like I can never relax...
Definately go to the doctors about your knees - he/she may be able to give you something straight away to the sort problem out - you dont need to be in pain like this..
Do you have any plans for today or do you think you might get chance to chill a bit??
WG xx
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 14:12:45 GMT
Hi Sam
I dont want to get in the middle of this thing with you Rachel. And I know that both you and Rachel will read this but I will tell you my thoughts...
Kids chew phones. Dont let them near them. If Rachel has seen your LO chewing the phone then why not take it off him?
I think if that is the reason it is broken then it is difficult, because he is your son. But Rachel is also responsible for her own phone too...
I hope you guys can talk openly about this and come to an understanding. Its awful when things like this happen between friends. But you both need to remember that that is what you are, friends, and things like this shouldnt come between you...
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 14:21:16 GMT
Hi Sam
It sounds like you are getting paranoid due to the problems you had that time with your friend. I would say you dont nee dto worry about that with Rach, you know she is a good person....
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 14:29:08 GMT
Im like that too. I get something in my head and before I know it I am in a total mess about it and cant rationalise out of it... I hope you and Rachel sort it out quickly so you can relax again. Treat yourself to a cuppa while the kids are sleeping and try to chill for a bit hun...
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 14:56:28 GMT
Enjoy that cuppa hun and try to forget about it for a while. Rachel will be cool, just keep checking on and off on facebook but try not to think about it all the time x
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 15:53:52 GMT
Hi Sam
Firstly I am really sorry that you and Rachel have had this fall out. I know that you guys were good friends....
But please do not stop using this site because of it. We are all still here for you and want you to talk to us still. It would be awful if one or both of you guys stopped using the site because of this...
Chin up hunny, it might still all work itself all...
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 17:02:14 GMT
Hi Sam
I understand that, but still wish you wouldnt leave the site. We still want to support you too..
It is fine to have me on MSN, and you can drop me a pm anytim, I just wish you didnt feel that you cant use your diary anymore..
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 17:09:24 GMT
Sam I am happy to remove any posts for you if you want them removing?
If you cant talk about things with you and Rach I understand that but please dont feel like you cant talk about anything else as well..
And Rachel, if you are reading this diary too, I hope you will still be using your diary as well? We still want to be here for you guys xx
Love you both
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 17:18:28 GMT
Hi Sam
I was gonna type a load of stuff here about your profile etc... but dont want to use your diary to go into aload of politcs etc.. so will send you a pm when i have finished burning the tea x
WG xx
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Post by molliesmummy on Sept 1, 2008 17:27:56 GMT
i dont understand why im the one in the wrong all this over hearing a bit of truth or hearing someones perception? all this hurt and anger and blocking me and barring me and calling names??? thats not what a friend does when she hears something she doesnt agree with. bye to all. dont need nobody. f**k everyone
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 17:30:33 GMT
Hey Rach,
Hang on line for a minute hun while I send you a pm xx
WG x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 17:36:05 GMT
The diary does not need deleting, you guys just need not to continue this conversation on here.
You are both fab and we are here for you both for your support, but I do think it is not the right thing to turn diaries into places for disputes..
Can you guys do this by email or something and just not write in each others diaries?
I have sent you both PM's. x
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Post by winegirl on Sept 1, 2008 17:40:53 GMT
I will say this...
I want you BOTH to use your diaries as you wish to talk about how you feel. I think it is important that you use your diaries to gain support from teh ladies here who care about you both.
HOWEVER. If this does turn into a slanging match, which it is verging on, the admin and mods will likely take some action. And this is productive for noone.
I think you need to make an agreement not to write in each others diaries from now on, and prob not talk about each other in yours either.
But please girls, dont give up on this site, I know this place was teh key factor in getting me well, and I would like to think it will be the same fo ryou guys too x
WG
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Post by sianyc on Sept 2, 2008 9:51:37 GMT
Just to say that I'm with WG in that both of you should still use the site.
We are here for support with your PNI.
Both of you falling out just means that you need to avoid the other.
Please don't let a disgreement, no matter how bad, get in the way of helping you both get over this illness.
None of the mods will take sides, we just want to help your recovery.
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Post by winegirl on Sept 3, 2008 15:00:01 GMT
Hi Sam
I am sure everything will go fine with Bobs operation hun, and he will be excited to be back home for his wee tea party and the op will be forgotten!
I am glad you are keeping youself busy with company at the moment, it will keep your mind busy and stop you from dwelling about it. Sounds like you have some lovely friends having you round for coffee and tea!!
Best of look with your appointment tomorrow hun, hope it helps xx
WG x
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