Little Leaf's musings

[juppster]

Great start to your diary hun, this is exactly what this space is for x x and a big yayyyy to the smiles x x

[monica]

Hi

Sounds amazing to have seen baby smile! Perhaps the delay was due to fact he was prem. i am ssire baby iss happy. also I believe prem babies can be harder to settle. If you can afford perhaps try cranial massage?

Having new baby and pni can change the way you feel about your partner. I despised mine. On reflection I think we both coped badly with pni each in different ways. Often communication breaks down too. With arrival f baby there Is virtually no time for each other. Yu said you gave up your job and are now reliant on him. Lossss of independance can be difficult. Being with baby 24/7 iss bloody ard wrk too. Can you iagine doing your old job all day and night. Youd burn yourself out very uickly. Pni can also distort the way you look at things, partnerss included. Don't give up on your marriage yet. As you get better(and you will) yu may view things more positively. Perhapss try talking to your oh. He like any people, doesn't understand how you feel and probably feels quite helpless. Perhapss think how he could help you and give him specific asks to do.

Hope today iss a good dayx