Post by bam02 on Apr 13, 2005 9:04:46 GMT
hello everyone,
I am a newish member and I want to introduce myself a bit.
I am called Anne-Marie, 40 this year in fact in 2 and 1/2 weeks on 1st May!
I am married and have been for 11 years. I have a son who is 10 and a daughter who is 2 1/2 years old.
I worked for the local council for 5 years and another council for ten years prior to that in Accountancy. I have been medically reitired since may last year and was off sick for nearly a year before that. I understand the pressure work can put on you.
I have had a history of treatment for depression since about 1994 when I had my son. But went back to work quite easilly that time. I was on antidepressants and eventually got refered to pschycologist at my doctors surgery.
I trundled along OK until my pyscical health deteriated. As i have a long term medical condition, calle a primary immune deficiency, where I don't make my own antibodies and take blood products once a week to help with that. I was diagnosed young at 10 years of age back inthe 70's and the treaments have got better over the years. But I still need the blodd products lkike a diabetic needs insulin and I have lung damage with symptoms similar to cystic fribrosis.
I moved jobs to a more local council with less hours - but I wasn't prepared for the new environment. I got very little support in the new job and was expected to learn the new systems without training . Although my grade was not much better than my preious job. The responsiblity was very much more and the manger seemed to get away with doing very little.!! Probably no surprise there. I found I had to fight to win any respect and the managers had there favourites and I wasn't one of them. It was a big mistake and i just crumbled in that workplace. !!!
As a consequense i just got pysicaly and mentally worse. I was off sick a lot and that made things worse once I got back. Eventually I was moved jobs and it might have been alright but I got pregnant with daughter number two and unresloved depression turned into prenatal and post natal depression...I went back to work for three months but then went off sick with depressiona nd have never been back. I am now on a pesion and incapacity benefit. The time i spent off sick was a nightmare - but as Verity said somewhere else on here I refused to resign and as result the outcome was better for me financially. They still had to pay me and follow procccedures.
But it takes it out of you. I wouldn't ay its easy at home beacuse my daughter is two and the expetations of my husband for a tidy house and hosuewife mother thing - don't sit easy with me. But its better.
I am finding life astruggle - I have had a cpn but was discharged when i fell out of the post preganncy period of 18 months and have had some Coganantive behavoiur therapy and it helped but its hard to keep going still.
So thats me.
better go as I am going on and on.
Bye for now
A-M
I am a newish member and I want to introduce myself a bit.
I am called Anne-Marie, 40 this year in fact in 2 and 1/2 weeks on 1st May!
I am married and have been for 11 years. I have a son who is 10 and a daughter who is 2 1/2 years old.
I worked for the local council for 5 years and another council for ten years prior to that in Accountancy. I have been medically reitired since may last year and was off sick for nearly a year before that. I understand the pressure work can put on you.
I have had a history of treatment for depression since about 1994 when I had my son. But went back to work quite easilly that time. I was on antidepressants and eventually got refered to pschycologist at my doctors surgery.
I trundled along OK until my pyscical health deteriated. As i have a long term medical condition, calle a primary immune deficiency, where I don't make my own antibodies and take blood products once a week to help with that. I was diagnosed young at 10 years of age back inthe 70's and the treaments have got better over the years. But I still need the blodd products lkike a diabetic needs insulin and I have lung damage with symptoms similar to cystic fribrosis.
I moved jobs to a more local council with less hours - but I wasn't prepared for the new environment. I got very little support in the new job and was expected to learn the new systems without training . Although my grade was not much better than my preious job. The responsiblity was very much more and the manger seemed to get away with doing very little.!! Probably no surprise there. I found I had to fight to win any respect and the managers had there favourites and I wasn't one of them. It was a big mistake and i just crumbled in that workplace. !!!
As a consequense i just got pysicaly and mentally worse. I was off sick a lot and that made things worse once I got back. Eventually I was moved jobs and it might have been alright but I got pregnant with daughter number two and unresloved depression turned into prenatal and post natal depression...I went back to work for three months but then went off sick with depressiona nd have never been back. I am now on a pesion and incapacity benefit. The time i spent off sick was a nightmare - but as Verity said somewhere else on here I refused to resign and as result the outcome was better for me financially. They still had to pay me and follow procccedures.
But it takes it out of you. I wouldn't ay its easy at home beacuse my daughter is two and the expetations of my husband for a tidy house and hosuewife mother thing - don't sit easy with me. But its better.
I am finding life astruggle - I have had a cpn but was discharged when i fell out of the post preganncy period of 18 months and have had some Coganantive behavoiur therapy and it helped but its hard to keep going still.
So thats me.
better go as I am going on and on.
Bye for now
A-M