Post by Jane on Jun 14, 2004 21:19:16 GMT
Hi
I've been feeling so much better lately and have been so busy I haven't had a chance to go online.
I don't really know how to explain this, so sorry if I sound muddled. Hope this doesn't upset or offend anyone.
I think my niece (my sister's daughter) is being neglected or possibly abused. My sister has always had lots of problems ever since she was a young child and has never been able to sort herself out. I try not to speak to her anymore because we don't get on and she always makes me feel bad, but I hear about her through my mum.
On Saturday night the police found her wandering around with my 5 year old niece. They picked her up and took her to her house to collect some things and then took her to a local pub where she has some friends who agreed to look after her. The police told her friends that her house was in a disgusting mess and that it wasn't fit for her to live in.
On Sunday night her friends had enough of her and took her to my mums with her daughter. I was just leaving my mums at the time and she saw me and ran off leaving her daughter crying in the street. My mum told me to go and I have just spoken to her today.
She blames my mum for all her problems and seems to want to punish her.
I've suspected that things have been bad for a while, but I don't know what to do about it. The last time I spoke to my sister was on Boxing Day at her house. At the time she had a bloke living with her and he invited us over for dinner. I noticed that my niece was very withdrawn and I followed her to her bedroom to talk to her. Her bedroom stank of urine and her mattress was soiled. She started to tell me about her nightmares but then the boyfriend came upstairs and she went very quiet.
I've heard some awful things lately. A while ago my sister and her boyfriend took some magic mushrooms and then took my niece up London to have a walk around.
I don't know what to do about this. Should I contact social services? Does anyone have any advice.
Love Jane
Ps I am so sorry if this has upset anyone. Veritee please delete this message if you think it is inappropriate for this board.
I've been feeling so much better lately and have been so busy I haven't had a chance to go online.
I don't really know how to explain this, so sorry if I sound muddled. Hope this doesn't upset or offend anyone.
I think my niece (my sister's daughter) is being neglected or possibly abused. My sister has always had lots of problems ever since she was a young child and has never been able to sort herself out. I try not to speak to her anymore because we don't get on and she always makes me feel bad, but I hear about her through my mum.
On Saturday night the police found her wandering around with my 5 year old niece. They picked her up and took her to her house to collect some things and then took her to a local pub where she has some friends who agreed to look after her. The police told her friends that her house was in a disgusting mess and that it wasn't fit for her to live in.
On Sunday night her friends had enough of her and took her to my mums with her daughter. I was just leaving my mums at the time and she saw me and ran off leaving her daughter crying in the street. My mum told me to go and I have just spoken to her today.
She blames my mum for all her problems and seems to want to punish her.
I've suspected that things have been bad for a while, but I don't know what to do about it. The last time I spoke to my sister was on Boxing Day at her house. At the time she had a bloke living with her and he invited us over for dinner. I noticed that my niece was very withdrawn and I followed her to her bedroom to talk to her. Her bedroom stank of urine and her mattress was soiled. She started to tell me about her nightmares but then the boyfriend came upstairs and she went very quiet.
I've heard some awful things lately. A while ago my sister and her boyfriend took some magic mushrooms and then took my niece up London to have a walk around.
I don't know what to do about this. Should I contact social services? Does anyone have any advice.
Love Jane
Ps I am so sorry if this has upset anyone. Veritee please delete this message if you think it is inappropriate for this board.