Post by banana on Apr 5, 2005 19:18:09 GMT
Hi all,
Just wanted to express my feelings about something.
Last wednesday I went to an open day for this baby/toddler music workshop. Recommended age was from 6 months to about 5 years. Isabelle is only 4 months but she is so responsive to music and singing etc that I thought I would take her anyway to see if it would be worthwhile signing up for a course so that she could interact with other children and play with the instruments etc.... even if she couldnt sing along. Anyway the problem was not her age, despite her being at least a year younger than the any of the other children.
MY PROBLEM WAS THE OTHER MOTHERS!!!!!!
I mean to cause no offence to anyone but why is it that some people feel that they have the right to look down their nose at you? I thought that it would be a good way to meet other mums, an activity Izzy and myself could both benefit from. I just felt that with being a young mum I was looked down upon by a few mums who thought it was their god given right to think they were better than me. I tried to start a converstion with one of them and she just sort of smiled at me and gave me a look of astonishment that I dared speak to her.
I was, needeless to say, a bit hurt. I consider myself to be a very presentable, down to earth, friendly young woman - I was made to feel like I wasnt good enough to be in the same room as these other mums. I swear they were all sat there thinking i couldnt possibly afford the £90 fee for the course.
Anyway, i just wanted to vent my anger on this as i decided against joining because of the frosty reception from some of the other mums. Maybe next time i decide to try a group like this i'll remember to turn up in my strech limo, prada handbag and gucci shoes......... just to make sure i fit in!
anyone else experience anything like this?
lana
Just wanted to express my feelings about something.
Last wednesday I went to an open day for this baby/toddler music workshop. Recommended age was from 6 months to about 5 years. Isabelle is only 4 months but she is so responsive to music and singing etc that I thought I would take her anyway to see if it would be worthwhile signing up for a course so that she could interact with other children and play with the instruments etc.... even if she couldnt sing along. Anyway the problem was not her age, despite her being at least a year younger than the any of the other children.
MY PROBLEM WAS THE OTHER MOTHERS!!!!!!
I mean to cause no offence to anyone but why is it that some people feel that they have the right to look down their nose at you? I thought that it would be a good way to meet other mums, an activity Izzy and myself could both benefit from. I just felt that with being a young mum I was looked down upon by a few mums who thought it was their god given right to think they were better than me. I tried to start a converstion with one of them and she just sort of smiled at me and gave me a look of astonishment that I dared speak to her.
I was, needeless to say, a bit hurt. I consider myself to be a very presentable, down to earth, friendly young woman - I was made to feel like I wasnt good enough to be in the same room as these other mums. I swear they were all sat there thinking i couldnt possibly afford the £90 fee for the course.
Anyway, i just wanted to vent my anger on this as i decided against joining because of the frosty reception from some of the other mums. Maybe next time i decide to try a group like this i'll remember to turn up in my strech limo, prada handbag and gucci shoes......... just to make sure i fit in!
anyone else experience anything like this?
lana