Post by gizmoracer on Jul 31, 2005 16:38:35 GMT
I may have to cut this post short (if hubby gets back) but I will continue it later.
I have just come back from my husbands grandads house. To try and cut a long story short. His family don't get on. The longer I know them the more family we find out about. Mother in law had a falling out (to be polite) with her Dad over a year ago. There was no sorting it out and he decided to make a will and leave everything to Me. Not in my Hubbys name because of family reasons and he also knew I would be sensible and use it on the family (ie us 2 + the kids). He has become terminally ill and we have to clear the house (council house). My husband being the black sheep of his family (ie the caring one) decided to take his mum and dad down there to have a look.
They walked in like vultures
Totally ignored me and the kids and started rumaging through stuff. As per usual my 2 decide they are bored and start to play up So my hubby suggests I take them home. What could I do ! I know he wasn't being vindictve but it sure felt like it. With both of us there we could keep an eye on them both, but with me gone they are free to overwhelm him and clear the lot. Lets face it there is next to nothing there but THATS NOT THE POINT. They made it clear they wanted nothing to do with him even after my hubby spent all week trying to get his mum to go to the hospital as we were told he is desperate to see her and might not have long left. Yet all the Bi*@h can do is slag him off. The poor bloke is 90 years old and dying does she not have a compasionate bone in her body! Yet its OK for her to go and gut the place. When I stormed out his dad was going through the paperwork For what? bank statements? what the h**l has it got to do with him anyway?
To be blunt I needed a good rant. It totally infuriates me and they are splitting us up, which the PNI is doing a pritty good job of itself.
Thanks
I have just come back from my husbands grandads house. To try and cut a long story short. His family don't get on. The longer I know them the more family we find out about. Mother in law had a falling out (to be polite) with her Dad over a year ago. There was no sorting it out and he decided to make a will and leave everything to Me. Not in my Hubbys name because of family reasons and he also knew I would be sensible and use it on the family (ie us 2 + the kids). He has become terminally ill and we have to clear the house (council house). My husband being the black sheep of his family (ie the caring one) decided to take his mum and dad down there to have a look.
They walked in like vultures
Totally ignored me and the kids and started rumaging through stuff. As per usual my 2 decide they are bored and start to play up So my hubby suggests I take them home. What could I do ! I know he wasn't being vindictve but it sure felt like it. With both of us there we could keep an eye on them both, but with me gone they are free to overwhelm him and clear the lot. Lets face it there is next to nothing there but THATS NOT THE POINT. They made it clear they wanted nothing to do with him even after my hubby spent all week trying to get his mum to go to the hospital as we were told he is desperate to see her and might not have long left. Yet all the Bi*@h can do is slag him off. The poor bloke is 90 years old and dying does she not have a compasionate bone in her body! Yet its OK for her to go and gut the place. When I stormed out his dad was going through the paperwork For what? bank statements? what the h**l has it got to do with him anyway? To be blunt I needed a good rant. It totally infuriates me and they are splitting us up, which the PNI is doing a pritty good job of itself.
Thanks
