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Post by newwie on Nov 26, 2006 19:13:28 GMT
Hi
I was just wondering as i have a mad thought lately that to get me out of this illness would be to have another baby?
Anyoen thought of doing this?
Anyone done this and helped them get through it all?
Or is there just more to come and dread?
Newwie
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Post by monica on Nov 28, 2006 9:54:13 GMT
Hi
Did you feel well in your pregnancy with G? Is that why this has cropped up? However, if you haven't recovered from PNI, isn't it more likely you'll get it again adn worse? Then there's the stress of looking after another baby not to mention teh physical hardship. On balance I dont' think it would be a cure to this dreaded illness.
Sorry can't tell you how ti is in reality as I didnt' have PNI after my first. I used to get verybroody even though I couldn't cope with one let alone two. Hormones are defo weird!
Monica
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Post by yoyo on Nov 28, 2006 10:16:41 GMT
I think many women go through this kind of thing newwie - wondering if a pregnancy me re-blanace things or something.
One thing I would say is to really think about this for a long time - PNI has no rules and if it did come back with a force after a new little one would you have the support to get you through it - on the other hand you may not get any PNI symptoms.
My advice would be - make sure you are feeling as well as you have been in a very long time, and for a good while before taking a big step such as this. Same for divorce, new relationship, moving house etc etc.
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Post by newwie on Nov 28, 2006 21:13:28 GMT
Hi
Thanks for the reply's.
Monica i felt really distant in my pregnancy with g and didnt really accept i was pregnant at all even after the birth and still dont.
I dont knwo what really i think would help i think that if i do everything like it should of been ie home birth, breast feed it might of been different.
I do cling to this hope and hope that when i do fall pregnant that i will be ale to do these things and it will be different like i will love my child when its born.
I think that when i have another child tht i will be better for some reason like it will all go away and i can rebuild my life its strange really srange i just think it woud be like that and its like a thing at the min inside me try it and it might happen i try not to think that it wold be bad i dont even think it could ever be this bad again.
Maybe its the attention really that i got when pregnant maybe i need more help and thats the way i think getting pregnant will help me more
newwie
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