I'm Pregnant - same again?

[spaj]

Hi all. I'M PREGNANT. Ha. Yes! My eldest son is 6 and my second is nine and a half months. I haven't been well since I was pregnant last time but feel as though I'm coming out of it now.

I live in Pembrokeshire and have had virtually no support at all, so am in the process of setting up my own peer support group. I hope this doesn't throw me altogether. I've already had thoughts of 'what if it all goes wrong?' but have decided to be as positive as I can be and try not to think like that. This little one is a complete blessing and I want to enjoy being pregnant this time.

Last time I had high blood pressure and pre-eclampsia so am worried about that, but know there is not much I can do about it yet. I'm off to see my GP on the 5th anyway, so will discuss everything with him then.

I'll let you know what happens.

Spaj x

[Scarlet]

Wow! Congratulations Spaj,

As you say you are coming out of the pni now, so try and keep yourself busy and your mind occupied on other stuff during this pregnancy. I have a couple of friends who had pni with their first and both went onto have another two ~ pni free.

Let us know how you get on at the docs won't you.

Hugs

Scarlet
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[spaj]

Thanks Scarlet.

Have been doing a few days in the shop I used to work in and I told the woman there today. She was really excited and gave me a hug. It doesn't seem real yet. I want to ring my mum but then think, maybe I shouldn't incase it goes pear shaped in the next few days. Don't know what to do really. Would love a glass of wine. Maybe will just sniff John's instead .........

Spaj x

[Scarlet]

Spaj,

How you doing hun.

Scarlet
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[spaj]

Hi there.

Not good at all. I did another test last Wednesday and the line just wasn't there. I guess Bubs just didn't settle in well enough. I came on on Thursday evening and (TMI) it was much heavier than normal. I do feel deflated but at the same time a bit relieved that I don't have all those hospital visits to panic about.

I have got lots in the pipeline at the moment to keep myself busy and haven't thought about it too much.

Thanks for listening.

Spaj x

[winegirl]

Hi Spaj

Sorry it didn't work out hun. Good to keep yourself busy x

If you do decided you want to talk about it we are here x

Winegirl

[scarlet1]

I'm so sorry to hear that Spaj, I had a couple of miscarriages before my second was born....

You are right keeping youself busy is a good thing. BTW Hows it going with the PNI group?

Love and Hugs

Scarlet
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[susanneb1984]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss

Thoughts are with you
xxx

[spaj]

Thanks all of you. x

I am really pleased that I've got this forum, even if I don't post much, it is lovely to 'listen' to the rest of you talking and know there are others who feel the same as me!

[susanneb1984]

We're always here Spaj, whether it's a good day or a bad one, we're here,