Post by bobish on Jan 13, 2007 22:27:42 GMT
hopefully people have read my other post on this website and will know what im carrying on talking about. My wife revealed she had a 1 night stand but still wanted to work it out with me.
Now my reaction was not what i expected, i of course was devestated but because she has suffered with pni for about 2 years now and the fact that i have not been there for her in the last year has made me think about stuff. I realised that i have neglected her in her time of need and for that i will be eternily sorry to her and i have told her this many times, i does not make me feel great at all that i have allowed the woman i love to suffer in silence for over a year, im a very lucky man that she is still with me. Realising this has given me a new feeling im madly in love with her again, its like i have only just met her and the qualities in her that first made me love her are still there( if not a little clouded) and i basically worship the ground she walks on.
One question i have to other woman who come onto this board, my wife is mentioning that she is finding it very difficult to feel anything for me, even tho i have made it clear how i feel, she says because its been so difficult int he last year that she has basically shut her emotions for me down. I just wondered if anyone has gone through anything similar? i will keep telling her i love her and that she has my support anytime of anyday that she needs it now because i will never let her suffer in silence again.
Now my reaction was not what i expected, i of course was devestated but because she has suffered with pni for about 2 years now and the fact that i have not been there for her in the last year has made me think about stuff. I realised that i have neglected her in her time of need and for that i will be eternily sorry to her and i have told her this many times, i does not make me feel great at all that i have allowed the woman i love to suffer in silence for over a year, im a very lucky man that she is still with me. Realising this has given me a new feeling im madly in love with her again, its like i have only just met her and the qualities in her that first made me love her are still there( if not a little clouded) and i basically worship the ground she walks on.
One question i have to other woman who come onto this board, my wife is mentioning that she is finding it very difficult to feel anything for me, even tho i have made it clear how i feel, she says because its been so difficult int he last year that she has basically shut her emotions for me down. I just wondered if anyone has gone through anything similar? i will keep telling her i love her and that she has my support anytime of anyday that she needs it now because i will never let her suffer in silence again.
