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Post by charlotte on Sept 11, 2005 20:15:22 GMT
hi there everyone. i posted a message on the site several months ago, i did get alot better with the help of a local support group, however, i have since gone through a major crisis (my sons father has left us) & i am feeling a mixture of emotions again! i was wondering wether it is a re-lapse or if it might just be 'circumstances' making me feel this way? 1 day i am fine & really coping well & the next i just want to scream, i have no patience with anyone (including my son sometimes, if he wriggles when i change his nappy or something like that i might snap "stop it.." )where as before when i started to feel good about life again i took it more in my stride. i am finding his dads visits hard, he takes him at wkends & altho i like the break i feel sick to the stomach about my son doing things with his daddy that i am not there to see etc, & this cam make me very anxious as part of my pnd was that i was very obsessive over my son & who held him & where he went etc without me, so this is REALLY hard for me to be dealing with!
well, thanks for letting me have the opportunity to ramble on, just all gets too much sometimes.
thanks.
charlotte.
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Post by cheshire on Sept 11, 2005 21:32:43 GMT
Hi Charlotte
I'm sorry you're having a rough time.
I know that PNI can make us a bit terrified of handing our baby over - but yours will be fine even if you do.
I am still with my husband (just) but he had a major incident of illness just before baby was born and there is no guarantee that it won't happen again. So if he is out I get scared that they will (I have 2 kids) not come back alive. But they do of course.
You are going through a really difficult life change and protective PNI will make you worry, but just keep posting here and we will support you.
You're not on you own.
Hopefulxx
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Post by susanneb1984 on Sept 14, 2005 21:12:46 GMT
Hi Charlotte,
How are you feeling today?
I'm sorry to hear about the break up between you and your partner. If you are at all worried that you maybe 'relapsing' please see your health visitor, and talk to the group you joined. I hope that in time you will feel strong again, an that this is just a tiny set back in your recovery.
Remember hun, you are not alone.
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Post by cheshire on Sept 23, 2005 12:11:32 GMT
Hi Charlotte
How are things with you?
Been thinking of you and just wondering how you're getting on.
Hopefulx
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Post by jummy on Sept 24, 2005 18:07:17 GMT
hi charlotte
if you feel those nausty feelings creeping back go along and see your local gp. i have just been diagnosed with pni for the second time after the birth of my daughter who is now 8 months old.
keep smiling tomorrow is another day
jummy
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