nina
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Post by nina on Feb 19, 2006 16:00:32 GMT
Hubbyand I have tried the new tingle condoms there really mentholly, so it works both ways, there interesting to say the least and if they don't work for you at least they smell nice lol.
Hope you enjoy your weekend away susanne!
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Post by Veritee on Feb 19, 2006 17:34:14 GMT
I had to laugh as I had years of that 'stiffy' poking at me - his name for it too. LOL
But in the end I told him it was just a physiological reaction probably to lying on his back and having a full bladder and I was not turned on by a random mechanical body function!
Anyway I never could enjoy sex at 5 or 6 am when we had to rush. This improved things no end , before this he had a bit of an adolescent attitude toward sex i.e if you have an erection use it, if not don't make the effort...
But now we plan it more look forward to it and get more out of it and we do it at different times often in the afternoon so we are not too tired like at night or having to rush like in the morning....
and Susanne we do not sleep in the same bed often, partly due to my accident but also doe to Barry's body clock being set for shifts - and we prefer it this way. But we are very close have lots of cuddles and sex when we feel like it ..
VeriteeXX
PS I do not need condoms but I think I'll try then anyhow - sounds interesting
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emilyalwaysblue
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Post by emilyalwaysblue on Feb 20, 2006 11:32:49 GMT
I get the bed to myself alot as my hubby works nights which is grear as I love to spread out alot! My hubby still has that thing, Ive got a "stiffy" I better have sex or my balls will drop of hahaha!
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Post by susanneb1984 on Feb 22, 2006 10:06:40 GMT
Yeah Alan's like that, he's very much, needing it everytime something makes him hard! pmpl Unfortunately, I don't do sex in the morning, all that sweat and morning breath no thankyou! pmpl And once I'm up and showered and brushed my teeth, I'm wanting to get things done, not get all sweaty again! pmpl
xxxx
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Post by francoise on Feb 23, 2006 10:02:06 GMT
i accidently touched his willy the other night and it was horrible , warm and slightly sticky , yukkk , oh my god im heaving now , but yeah i heaved for ages , yukky gross ,
fran xxx
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Post by susanneb1984 on Feb 23, 2006 10:15:41 GMT
Hahahahahahahahaha Fran! If I touched Alan, I wouldn't get away with it! pmpl
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emilyalwaysblue
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I am 20 and diagnosed with PNI when my son was 10 months old
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Post by emilyalwaysblue on Feb 23, 2006 20:09:06 GMT
Hahaha. I hate morning sex aswell ewww bad morning breath hardly gets me going. Plus the sound of my son going "dadadada" down the monitor is hardly the music of love lol! Since I have had my boobs dome hubby has been more horny though, says Im like his own page 3 girl with my plastic tits hehehe! Never seen a page 3 girl covered in strectch marks though have you? haha
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Post by monica on Feb 23, 2006 21:03:44 GMT
Hi
You lot are so funny. Mornign sex- can remeber it in the sitant past.....I use to love a am shag, but these days I'd have to get up at 5am - don't think I'd like that. Just worked out me and bf haven't had sex in over a month! Maybe if my sciatica can stand it.......mind you what's on the box 2 night!
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Post by pumpkinjam on Feb 24, 2006 13:39:21 GMT
hi. i have to say that my sex life has been practically non-existent since even before we found out i was pregnat. i have heard of women going off it during pregnancy and after childbirth but it's my partner who lost interest. how do you get them interested again? i'm trying!
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nina
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Post by nina on Feb 24, 2006 19:42:03 GMT
Hey, Punkinjam have your talked to your other half, my hubby and I talked when I was first preggars and it turned out we where both scared of hurting the baby or worse doing something and losing the baby, once we dicussed are fears we both felt better and had sex after the 12 weeks period. Once Owen was born, again we both talked and he and I were scared of hurting me and me being hurt and it not feeling the same, with having to get a huge baby out. If he won't talk try Walking around in some sexy undies and see if that tickles his fancy. Good Luck.
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Post by francoise on Feb 24, 2006 20:58:55 GMT
well the thought makes me puke now im preggers to , well it did before actually , it just does , hm , you know when i got pregannt was just to shut him up , things we do , i was a horny bitch once ,
fran xxxxx
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Post by Veritee on Feb 24, 2006 22:13:07 GMT
Hi All
I have to say that Barry going off sex has always been my problem too! He does like sex - a lot -
But will not even go there if there is the slightest chance that I am uncomfortable or will be hurt by it.
When I was pregnant just would not do it for fear of hurting me or the baby - I was really wanting sex for some reason in the last few months but he did not want to know!!
I did not want sex for sometime after the birth when I had PNI but he also did not ask - so I had to have a discussion with him when I felt OK about it again.
And after my accident he would not have sex with me and again I had to have a talk ' with him to say if was OK
So it always takes me having a 'talk' with him so that he knows its OK and it will not hurt me emotionally of physically before ...................
'normal service is resumed
VeriteeXX
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Post by cheshire on Feb 24, 2006 23:16:52 GMT
Hi All Well, my sex life is defo improving I love him and we have had a few downers recently, to say the least, but we are getting there Hxxx
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Post by susanneb1984 on Feb 26, 2006 22:17:29 GMT
Hahahahahaha go for it babes, no condoms WooHoo! lol xxxx
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Post by cheshire on Feb 27, 2006 10:00:01 GMT
Not yet..gotta get those samples into the hospital to be checked - LOL!!
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