natalie1985
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Post by natalie1985 on Dec 25, 2005 11:19:28 GMT
Well girls, I think im going to have a chat with my Brett! I have not "climaxed" in probably about 6mths or more!!!! I think i need more attention!!! lol...what do you all think??? lol Love Nat
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Post by cheshire on Dec 25, 2005 14:55:25 GMT
Hi defo Nat
I don't do one sided sex - it's a rule LOL!!
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Post by sarajay28 on Dec 28, 2005 21:28:42 GMT
Hi Everyone,
Well did any of you get any nice undies or 'toys' for christmas? lol. I got some underwear from my mum!!!! Yeah a nice plain white bra and french knickers!! Lovely, sorry i'm sounding ungrateful but at 28 i would prefer to get undies from my man not my mum!!! LOL. Never mind, they are lovely for everyday wear although the knickers are soooo uncomfy!! lol. I'm going on a shopping spree tomorrow as i got quite a bit of money for christmas so i might get something 'naughty' while i'm out!! lol.
Hope you all got some nice pressies too.
Loadsa Love
Sarah.xxx
P.S i don't do one sided sex either nat!!! its all or nothing for me! hahaha.......
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Post by susanneb1984 on Jan 2, 2006 12:49:31 GMT
Hmmmmm no, I have to disagree! lol as usual! lol Alan is quite often horny in the morning, but I'm not, so I give him a helping hand without him giving me one! lol Ok, I need to ask your advice! lol I'm probably just over-reacting! Ok, so we've been together for nearly 2 years now, and 2005 was a rocky year for us. Anyway, he started talking to a woman called 'Kitty' who he works with, she works on a different bit, but in the same building! Ok, so anyway, one night he said he was going out, and I asked where, he said 'Erm.....to Dave's' So I said 'Ok, you've not mentioned Dave before, have I met him?' So he then admitted he was going to 'Kittys' house, and was scared to tell me. He said they got on really well, and emailed each other at work. Then he said she didn't know I existed or that I was pregnant with GJ.....he said it was nice to talk to someone who didn't ask about me or the girls! Ok, so he went to hers at about 11:30pm and got home from hers at 6am! He said they'd been watching films! Anyway, everyone (even his mum) thinks something is going on between them, and so far I've said nothing was! But New Years Eve, he was supposed to be going to a friends, while I had the kids, but his friend (who I know well) was going out, so guess where he spent New Years Eve, yep at Kittys! Anyway, last night, we got into bed, and I tried to get him in the mood! I don't often iniate it and usually he jumps at it! But last night, he said he wasn't in the mood!? He's NEVER said that to me in the 2 years we've been together! Ok, and this is going to sound stupid, but we were listening to music yesterday and a song came on about cheating, and he went very quiet, his hands got quite sweaty and he was a bit on edge! Ok so what do you think? He won't let me meet Kitty, but even his work mates think somethings going on! Am I over-reacting!? Surely I'd know if he was cheating? Sorry for stealing ur thread Nat! lol
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Post by susanneb1984 on Jan 2, 2006 12:50:18 GMT
He goes to hers at least once a week, usually picks her up from work at midnight and stays until between 5-7am!
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natalie1985
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Post by natalie1985 on Jan 2, 2006 13:02:01 GMT
LOL well because you stole my thread ill take over again lol jokes Firstly are you ok sweety??? Well im sorry Susanne but it sounds VERY suss!!! I would KILL brett if he was visiting another woman, especially once a week...at least! He wouldnt let me dot he same either!!! I honestly think somethings going on!!! Have you confronted him at all??? Also i think the fact that you are suspicious and his work mates, i think that says alot! I know its probably hard to hear sweetie...you should confront him!!! Love Nat xxx
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Post by susanneb1984 on Jan 2, 2006 13:07:41 GMT
I can't help but think that it's only because everyone else is suss that it's making me like that too! To be honest, I'm petrified of asking him! lol that sounds so stupid!
People have been telling me for months that something is going on, but I never believed it! Also he asked me to go down on him last night, something I have never really done as he said he didn't enjoy it.....I thought it was a strange request!
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Post by susanneb1984 on Jan 2, 2006 13:15:03 GMT
Ok, he said he just felt like some oral last night! Hmmmmm!
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Post by cheshire on Jan 2, 2006 15:36:41 GMT
Hiya Susanne,
I can understand why you are feeling this way - I know I'd be the same!! But I don't know what to advise - I know it's possible to have platonic friends of the opposite sex..and I know you have friends like this too (e.g. Adrian - did I get the name right?). And although my husband insisted on meeting my two male friends before we got married (as I sometimes go out with them for a drink), he has otherwise got used to it. I do not fancy these blokes AT ALL, I have just known them a long time through work. Sorry, I am going of track. So I guess it could be innocent? Hard to know what to do - I probably would have to ask eventually coz it would eat away at me..
Anyway hun, this is neither use nor ornament this post is it? But I can see your dilemma.
Love, Hxxx
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Post by susanneb1984 on Jan 2, 2006 16:31:43 GMT
Haha thanks H, I don't mind him going round to see her at all, it's just I think everyone saying he's cheating, it eventually gets into your head! I know you can have platonic friends, like Adrian who is my lifeline, I'll talk to him!
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Post by wendabell on Jan 2, 2006 21:51:19 GMT
susanne, hi hunny, well for me i used to have and well still do have more male friends than female.but i have to admit lost touch with most since having kids and pni.I would not have a problem with my hubby going out with another woman if say he talked about her like a mate or i met her maybe once,you know like you would with any of his mates and visa versa if it was you who had a male friend.That isnt a problem.What did concern me was the fact he spent the night at hers??? Strange to spend a night out i though especially watching films!.Now i like me films i do but not from 11pm-6am no way ho say.And for him to get all nervous when a song comes on the radio, very strange. I agree you should talk to your platonic friend for advice as he is there and we are spread across the web and not there with you and see your situation.But to me it does sound like something is being conceiled. I know it must put a hec of a strain on the relationship for a bloke when his partner develops pni and like mine it does rock the old foundations much.But i do feel for you hunny right now.It must be a confusing time for you not knowing who or what to believe. I am thinking of you wendabell
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Post by sarajay28 on Jan 2, 2006 22:11:33 GMT
Hiya Susanne, I just felt i had to reply to you on this one, i know we have talked about it before and i thought it was suss then. You should confront him. I have recently had a similar thing with robbie, maybe you know from my diary that we have every alternate friday nights out with our own friends as i won't go out drinking with robbie (but that a long story too) well a couple of weekends ago it was his friday night and he had stayed out previously til 4am which i was not pleased about. So i made him promise that he would be home after the pubs shut (not unreasonable i thought) and he said that ok, he would do this. Well he came home at 4.45am and i was worried sick as i had been phoning him from about 4am and he wasn't answering and i'd also tried his friends but got no answer. He came in with a cut on his chin and said that he'd come home from the pub at closing time got camerons bike out the garden and went to his mates where he'd fell off the bike and knocked himslf out!! (ahem!) i'd asked why he didn't answer his phone as i would have been phoning when he'd been on his way home and he said because his phone was on silent, i asked why and he said 'its been on silent for a few days' which i told him was a blatant lie because i'd phone him at work that afternoon 3 times and he'd answered!! so obviously he'd put his phone on silent at sometime during the night. He then confessed in the morning that he'd actually gone home with a female friend (who i know) and that he hasn't seen her for ages and they wanted to catch up as they have both had babies since they last saw each other but he didn't want to tell me this as i would have thought the worst!!!!!! As it happens i do think the worst and have now totally lost all trust in him. I got thrush 3 days after this all happened and couldn't stop thinking that maybe it wasn't thrush but i got it treated and it cleared up. I still don't trust him and he is still staying out late when he goes out on his own. Maybe from my diary you'll know that we've had a massive bust up and i told him to leave but we are still trying to work things out as i don't believe in giving up easily. I don't know what you girls think about all this? Susanne, sorry to hi-jack your problem with my own but i know what you are feeling right now, and Nat so sorry for hi-jacking this once fun thread!!! I'm seriously thinking about becoming a lesbian, would it be any easier? lol
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Post by angel on Jan 3, 2006 7:28:37 GMT
Hi Susanne
I'm really sorry that you are going through this and i have to say that it does sound a bit funny and i think that sarahjayne is right you should just confront him about it. If he has nothing to hide then he wont mind telling you about it and letting you meet her. Sorry but this is just my opinion i really hope that it is just an innocent friendship.
Take Care
Angel
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Post by susanneb1984 on Jan 3, 2006 12:51:00 GMT
Hahaha I've often thought that Sarah, might be a lot easier, and as you all know, it wouldn't be my first experience with a woman! lol Oh well, I'll see what happens! lol Ok, so whose had GREAT sex this Xmas!?
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natalie1985
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Post by natalie1985 on Jan 4, 2006 6:33:56 GMT
Susanne we're all here for you! keep us updated!!! ((((HUGS)))) Ok, now answering your other question...I had FANTASTIC sex this xmas lol lots of it! hehe Love Nat
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