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Post by faith31 on Nov 15, 2007 10:25:50 GMT
Hiya sex or lack of it.....i ahev 4 kids the youngest is 3 the eldest is 14......so the young ones go to bed the older ones stay up.. So when they do go to bed and then we go to bed my oh drops off and if he dosen't its a quick fumble....i want PASSION i want INTRIGUE...I want him to be an animal.. but alas if i am really lucky ia hve my 3 and 4 year old in my bed snoring no if i am really lucky the oh snores too.. any advice love faith  |
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Post by gizmoracer on Nov 15, 2007 11:30:00 GMT
Date Night  Do you have anyone who could look after the younger ones for you for an evening and could you perhaps sort out with the older ones to visit a friend for a couple of hours etc.? Make it a specific evening when you know you won't both be knackered from work (if thats possible being mum to 4) and pre-arrange it between the 2 of you. There is loads of variations on this one, depending on time and money. Spend a bit of time in the day preparing things, de-cluttering a room for example maybe a suggestive text to him at work, have some candles ready (you can get some very realistic fake ones these days if your not a fan of real) maybe change the light bulb, dress in something you feel good in and I'm sure that after 4 kids you know where to go from there Not meaning to plug my site or anything but you can get some very nice 'weekend kits' these days for special occasions or just simply make one up yourself. Take a look on the shop link at the top of this page and see Sinful desire if you want any ideas. The quickie is all well and good but we all need to feel loved once in a while. |
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Post by faith31 on Nov 21, 2007 13:41:12 GMT
HI Gizmoracer
Thanks for the advice i have yet to put it into practice, but will see how it goes, trouble is he is so unromatic \!!!!!!
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nishka
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Post by nishka on Jan 2, 2008 10:52:39 GMT
Why not use his 'quickie' idea not as a time for doing the whole thing (!) but what about using some of the time just for some foreplay and then doing another quickie bit each night leading up to the 'big' deal? (!) It might leave you both longing for some more. And you can flirt during the day too even with the kids around - a quick fumble about in the kitchen or upstairs while making the beds (!) and let him know that you're not wearing any knickers (!) that kind of thing... Even the most animalistic of men can't resist a hard to please woman.. Go for it! Tell him what you want. Men are very bad mind readers. x
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