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Post by winegirl on Jun 28, 2007 20:31:09 GMT
WEll, as some of you may know by baby is nearly 14 months now, and I thought that being away from her would get easier as she got older. But instead it's getting harder! I cry when I wave bye bye to her in the morning to go to work and can't bear the thought of having half an hour of me time away from her.
It has got to the point that I am ready for her to go to bed so I can sit down for a bit with a glass of wine or do the dishes or something, but then get sad because I miss her again!
Anyone else like this or is it just me being wierd?
Winegirl x
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Post by Scarlet on Jun 29, 2007 7:38:58 GMT
I feel exactly like you Winegirl and I can tell you I felt the same with my eldest when I didn't have pni. You are definitley not weird hun.
Scarlet
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Post by winegirl on Jul 1, 2007 19:28:50 GMT
Thanks for that Scarlet
Was starting to think I was wierd for not wanting a bit of time away from her! Glad I am not alone!
Winegirl x
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Post by caterina on Jul 2, 2007 10:11:25 GMT
Not strange at all winegirl. My bub is 14 almost 15 months and I feel exactly like that! I went back to work recently and with working shifts and going to the gym her daddy had to put her to bed for 4 nights running..I was so pleased when I woke up this morning and realised I had the whole day with her and didn't have to leave her!
I can barely speak about her at work or think about her or I would just end up in tears, it's soooo nice to get the cuddles and the smiles when you come in though isn't it? xx
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Post by winegirl on Jul 3, 2007 19:58:54 GMT
Caterina
Thank God it is not just me who has to avoid thinking about her at work so as not to get upset over not being with her! Really thought I was a loon!
I'm hoping others will add to this thread to see what their xperiences are with leaving their children too!
Thanks again Caterina
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Post by cheshire on Jul 3, 2007 22:57:04 GMT
Hi, When I was in the midst of PNI - I must admit to finding a nursery place helpful for my two (I think it was just one day a week to start with ). But I must admit, I felt no better for them not being around at home (thought I would) !! I guess I was just going to feel ill whether they were with me or not! When I finally went back to work, I felt terrible about leaving them and I really missed them and worried at work etc. Nearly 3 years on - happy that they're at a Nursery but look forward to seeing them again at the end of a stressful day and enjoy their company  (well, usually  ) I never settle properly till my brood is back home safe and sound at the end of each day Hopefulx |
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