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Post by noodles on May 6, 2006 9:39:07 GMT
antibiotics are kicking in feel much better, found the most wicked house and really want it but just got a phone call from my mum and she isn't feeling well, she's depressed, and she asked me why i wanted to go to bulgaria and i said i had plans and she said don't run away i need you round, so now i am totally confused about what to do..... do i have to stick around and put all of my life plans on hold for my mum??? i may never get another chance.... ahhhh x
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Post by cheshire on May 6, 2006 11:51:43 GMT
Hi Noodles
Sounds like you've got loads of decisions to make and also loads of different views to take into account.
Instincts can help at times like these
Hope you're ok
HopefulX
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Post by marion on May 6, 2006 20:05:33 GMT
Hey Noodles My neighbours go to Bulgaira loads - they do charity work over there for orphanges (They are wonderful people) and they say it is a beautiful country and the people are wonderful. The coastlines are supposed to be fantastic too - I sound like I;m from the Bulgarian tourist board!!!!!! It's a difficult situation you're in and you need to think carefully. On one hard your mum needs you with her which is understandable. Is there any other family she can call on or does she have a network of frineds? However, you have a family of your own now and you need to think of their needs too. What about schools in the future? Also, if you are going to make a permanent move out there it may be better to do in while Lyla is young so it's an easier transition for her. It's really difficult but I'm sure you're think it all through from both sides and talk to your partner and family and do what's right. Love Marion.
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Post by susanneb1984 on May 8, 2006 20:51:58 GMT
Hiya Noodles,
Sorry i've not been around much lately, my life has been a bit mad lately! I hope your ok hunni, trust your heart hunni.
Susanne xxxx
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Post by hannah457 on May 8, 2006 22:34:50 GMT
hi noodles. sorry not been around lately, Ive been really busy.
you need to live your life for you hunni. in your heart you know what is the right choice. seize the day and never look back.
remember you only get one chance to live your life so do it for you because when your gone you don't get a second chance
let us all know what you decide
love Hannah xx
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Post by noodles on May 9, 2006 10:32:23 GMT
ive not been around much either, was having a really bad day the other day, or shall i say have been having a really bad 6 months?!?!?! spoke to mum yesterday and she is feeling much better, yes she has got other family around her brother lives right near her, and although me and him don't see eye to eye on alot of things i have been making a special effort to get on with him as he has been doing up mums house and sorting all dads stuff for her while she is away, and i know that he will look after her always!!! he goes on holiday around every other month, him and his wife as they are semi retired so i am hoping that he is going to spoil mum as he is loaded!!!! so as you have guessed i am defo still going. have booked the first two weeks of july out there so look at properties and two chill out. still burst in to floods of tear every now and again when i remember that dad has gone, but i am really focused on a fresh start!!! carl too!!! had our property valued and it's worth more than we though so we are really happy!!! most of the villages in bulgaria have schools and i have always wanted my little one to be bi-lingual, Im sure she will adapt well and when she gets older and hates it then we will have to rethink!!! had a big hoo haa in our little town the other day, a load of lads beat up the police, i have to think to my self if i want lyla being brought up in this environment?!?!?! plus from personal experience i know the drugs in this area are bad and if it was like that when i was a teenager i dread to think of what it is like now, and i live in a quiet little town in devon!!!! the more i think about it the more i want to go. i just wanna go NOW!!!!! x
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Post by noodles on May 12, 2006 12:06:36 GMT
feeling much calmer and much better, lyla is sleeping nearly 12 hours a night now.... and i am really starting to feel like my old self again!!!! still can't wait to go to bulgaria but the need to go NOW and to run away has gone!!! not terrible motivated to finish this house but that's just another sign that i am back to my old self!!! but really looking forward to a new life.... i feel excited, and happy, and lots of love for my little one and my husband!! oh and i feel horny most the time again, which is great and very much like my old self!!! my poor husband though is a bit worried that it might come back with avengence and wear him out!!! there never happy are they!!! god it's thundering again her!!! that's the second day in a row!!! was gonna walk in to town but i don't wanna get a shock!!! best turn the lap top off!!! x
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Post by marion on May 12, 2006 18:54:58 GMT
Hi noodles Bet your hubby is pleased you've got your sex drive back - mine resurfaced briefly and MArk was definately much happier! Hope you dont get a storm tongiht = looks like we might have one here - it rained a lot earlier and looks stormy. Love Marion.
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Post by susanneb1984 on May 12, 2006 21:26:46 GMT
Hiya Noodles, YAY! Alan was in shock when my sex drive came back, he thought I was going loopy again for a while! lol Glad things are improving hunni. xxxx
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Post by noodles on May 17, 2006 6:50:15 GMT
well booked my tickets last night and arranged my accomodation in bulgaria to go house hunting... just wanted to get your opinion on the idea we had..... instead of my hippy retreat, we thought about a child/baby friendly, relaxation retreat, still hammacks, pool etc but all the facilities you would have at home so you could travel with your little one... i.e child proof every thing, supply, walkers, cots, prams, the baby things to go on bikes, car seats, sterilizers, play zone, monitors etc..... what do you think, have other people found it hard travelling with babies, or does the idea of carrying all the stuff put you off? we have had a night mare finding a place that has a cot in bulgaria let alone any thing else, in fact the women that has the b&b has gone out and bought one..... would love your opinion..... nx
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Post by marion on May 17, 2006 7:12:06 GMT
I think that sounds a great idea - I havent thought of travelling with Chloe yet myself but a firend of mine took her little girl who is Chloe's age to Tenerife and she said it was a nightmare trying to sort everything and that they had to pay 40 euros a week extra just to hire a cot which I think is a right cheek!
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Post by noodles on May 17, 2006 7:23:55 GMT
thanks monica, our idea is to throw all use of every thing in free.... we are not out there to make a loads of dosh just have a happy life and make life easier for other people as we so understand how hard it is having a little one..... im so excited, can't believe we gotta wait 2 months before we go out to find a house!!! but im sure it will go quick... going to a gay wedding today!!! should be interesting!!! x
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Post by bam02 on May 17, 2006 10:48:22 GMT
A Gay wedding ? Male or female? I think its great there are more rights now!
Wow. Let us know how it goes?
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Post by noodles on May 17, 2006 15:32:35 GMT
well had a mega busy day, got my self weighed and i now weigh 147.0 Ibs so i think that's 10.5 stone.... was hoping that it was more but never mind, at least it feels like more.... the gay wedding (two men) was good, short and sweet. unfortunatly no raving tranny's or any thing very civilized. didn't stay very long as the reception was in a pub and a bit smoky for poor little lyla.... plus a bit frustrating for me as i wasn't drinking!!! good to get out though!!!
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Post by noodles on May 19, 2006 10:56:45 GMT
went and saw the cpn this morning, she seems really nice and i think that i could get on with her.... she is refering me to to a homeopath to help with the pmt symptoms, she thinks that i might have some thing called, shit forgotten the name, well some think like unrealised greif, where i seem to have lost a lot in a short space of time!!?!! so will have to see how things go!!! got appointments every other until i go on holiday then one after, she said that we will take a slowly slowly softly softly approach, which suits me fine.... the problem is i don't know where to start but i have faith that she will guide me through it!!!! so for a bit it's just a matter of plodding on... don't feel to bad looking forward to my holiday and getting away... x
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