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Post by helenr on Apr 13, 2007 20:23:08 GMT
Had meeting with CTM and HR today. Have told them that I don't know if I can come back to ward work at mo, too few staff, too much stress, too long hours. They asked if they could get OHSAS to see me again, and in meantime they are going to look for something else for me to do which makes the most of my skills, while not being detrimental to my health. They will see me again next month, so all in all, quite a positive meeting.
Kids were at nursery today, so I did some cleaning, and then had a very decadent nap, before colecting them. Have uncuffed hubby, to let him out for the evening, kids are in bed, and I'm having a leisurely vodka and lemonade, and then an early night.
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Post by Veritee on Apr 13, 2007 21:48:31 GMT
Thats great about your meeting - sounds very positive. Good on you for being so assertive and telling them that you will not be back yet and why. It does not sound like it would help to go back into the sort of stressful situation you describe. I only wish more employers were like that i.e willing to compromise and find you somthing worthwhile that is not so presured - mine certainly wasn't!!
God you have untied hubby and let him out? I hope he has a great time and you a nice early night
VeriteeXX
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Post by jmontan27 on Apr 14, 2007 21:52:14 GMT
Glad your work are trying to be accomodating Helen. Sometimes working for the NHS has its good points!
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Post by helenr on Apr 17, 2007 19:58:57 GMT
Not much been happening, just trying to enjoy the sun as much as poss!
Still feeling really good, have noticed that I'm very tired around period time. So much for the coil stopping them!!!!
OH has been off this week, so we've been spending quality family time together, which has been great. And its meant I can have a long leisurely nap in the afternoons!!!
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Post by sianyc on Apr 18, 2007 8:13:40 GMT
mmm daytime napping - love it
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Post by helenr on Apr 18, 2007 21:33:31 GMT
Bit of a yeuck day today.
Hubby woke up looking like he had done ten rounds with mike tyson, so had to go to dental hosp. A root from his tooth is growing into his sinus's, AAARRRGGGHH!
Although feel very sorry for him, meant I had to cancel my badly needed hair appt!
So, having a glass of wine, kids in bed and hubby jenning up for job interview tomorrow.
Keep your fingers crossed for us ladies, that one of us may not have to work for the NHS for too much longer!
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Post by helenr on Apr 21, 2007 21:36:52 GMT
After last posting, noticed bleeding from my right nipple. Spoke to gp on Fri, we're trying antib's first over the weekend, and if no change, then need to be referred for further tests. Discharge is still there, and am trying my best to stay calm. I suppose its one of the down sides to what me and hubby do for a living, sometimes I'd rather be oblivious to what things might be. Keep catching hubby looking at me, and I know what he's thinking!
Have found the past few days really stressful, and I'm worried sick!
Anyway, onto something else! Went to see the new nursery today, think L is going to like it. Am going to take him to see it tomorrow, and then a nice family day out.
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joannem
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Post by joannem on Apr 21, 2007 21:51:51 GMT
Hi Helen
I have read that some ANTID's can cause happenings in the boob dept (not serious things) but sometimes milk production so maybe could be related to this? Has your hubby got a BNF??
Still best to get it checked though all the same.
Thinking of you
Love Jo xx
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Post by helenr on Apr 21, 2007 22:00:23 GMT
Ho Jo,
yeah, we've been through that, but prob is its blood coming from boob - it can only be 1 of 2 things.
Thanks for caring,
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joannem
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Post by joannem on Apr 21, 2007 22:19:31 GMT
Big Hugs Darl
Thinking of you and here for you, let us know how you get on, when are you back at Drs?
Jo xx
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joannem
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Post by joannem on Apr 23, 2007 19:45:44 GMT
Hi Helen
Just thinking of you and wondering how you are?
PM me if you want to.
Love Jo xx
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Post by Jay on Apr 23, 2007 19:57:05 GMT
Just saying Hi and thinking about you,
lots of love
jay xx
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Post by jmontan27 on Apr 23, 2007 22:04:56 GMT
Hi Helen
Just read about your health scare and wanted to say I'm thinking about you.
love Jxxxxx
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Post by claire99991 on Apr 23, 2007 22:06:39 GMT
Hiya helen was just wondering how you were?
Thinking about you xxx
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joannem
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Post by joannem on Apr 25, 2007 21:28:57 GMT
Hello Helen
Noticed you havent posted for a wee while, just wondering how you are hun?
Hope everything is ok
Love Jo xx
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