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Post by helenr on May 14, 2007 20:12:48 GMT
Hi all,
not been very well, very tired, asleep most of day. Am seeing gp on wed for blood results, have to wait for mammogram results. Hubby off, helping with kids, thank god.
Just want you all to know that even if I don't post for a while, I'm thinking of you.
Love and hugs x
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clarey
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Post by clarey on May 14, 2007 20:21:09 GMT
Hi Helen,
Am thinking of you.
Love Clareyxx
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Post by claire99991 on May 14, 2007 20:30:15 GMT
Helen, thinking of you as well hope you are feeling better soon
claire xxx
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Post by Veritee on May 14, 2007 21:42:48 GMT
Same here  Let us know Helen how the mammogram tests go? I felt I wanted to say to you that it is fine to talk about absolutely anything on here in your life that is worrying/distressing you/concerning you - and physical concerns such as your mammogram are certainly OK to talk about or share here if you want to.It must /is very scary to have blood coming from your nipple - so I will not try to reassure you with my experience with this . I just want to reassure you that it is totally OK to share anything about this and how you feel about this as you go along - on here.The forum was set up to support women through PNI but we recognize we are complete people and PNI is not all of our lives - so anything that is of concern is OK to air on here - of course only if you want to as we respect your privacy too!So please post if and when you feel like it and about anything you feel like sharing - or do not post at all if you do not want to...... However I for one will be watching your diary to see how the mammogram and blood tests went and how you are feeling and what they think the cause is - please let us know - but only if you want to?Love veritee |
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Post by caterina on May 15, 2007 9:50:01 GMT
We are thinking of you too Helen, take your time with this and be good to yourself xx
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Post by helenr on May 17, 2007 20:42:44 GMT
Hi all,
many thanks once again for your kind thoughts.
Veritee, thank you in particular fr your post, the reassurance that its ok to post about my health scare here, is just what I needed.
I have been so frightened of upsetting people here, especially when they are perhaps having a blip and not doing so well.
Ok, blood results were a bit off, but nothing conclusive.
Mammogram shows there is something there, and I have to go in for needle biopsy. It could be done tomorrow, but OH wants a particular surgeon to do it, and he's on a conference, so it will be next week. OH feels so strongly about who he wants to do it, that I don't mind the wait, and to be honest the delay's not going to make a difference.
Am still very tired, infact I slept for 4hrs today, and feeling sick most of the time.
Phone call ferom Ireland yesterday to say that mums been taken into hospital with a lump in her neck, so she will also need biopsy/scan. It never rains but it pours!!!!
Although am proud to say that through all this stress and worry Flo has still never raised her head, which I'm delighted about.
Am off now to try and catch up with whats been happening on the site, so sorry that I've not been able to support my friends here just now. But all of you are alwas in my thoughts.
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Post by joannem on May 18, 2007 13:06:55 GMT
Helen you are in my thoughts and prayers, here for you anytime if you want to talk or I will listen.
Think you are doing so well, glad Flo hasnt shown! (Edna must be keeping her occupied!)
Love n a massive hug
Jo xx
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Post by helenr on May 21, 2007 21:15:15 GMT
Feel absolutely wretched!!!
L was playing about with his dinner, nothing unusual there, but I really lost my temper and shouted at him. He got a fright, and burst into tears, proper tears!!
I then came over to give him a hug, and he clung onto my neck for ages, he was so distraught. I do raise my voice to the boys when needs be, but I never shout like that. His reaction broke my heart, and I'm really upset about it too.
I guess all the stress and strain of the past few days bubbled to the surface, and came out directed at the person who deserves it least.
Mum had her biospy today, and is for a scan tomorrow. We'll get the results in a few days.
I'm having my biopsy on Wed, panicking a bit about it now.
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Post by sianyc on May 21, 2007 21:24:07 GMT
Thinkning of you for Wednesday lovely.
I've done the exact same thing shouting at my eldest on a few occasions. We can't be as perfect as we want and I know it's heart breaking to see them cry like that. Try not to let the guilt get you down - he'll have forgotten soon enough x
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Post by joannem on May 21, 2007 22:23:02 GMT
Hi Helen
Just thinking of you and hoping Weds goes ok.
dont worry about shouting, we always do it to the ones we love, and I think you are right about the stress and strain of everything bubbling up. Like Sianyc said they forget soon enough and you both had a big hug n love after.
Sending you lots of love and strength for weds, let us know how you get on xx
Joxxx
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Post by claire99991 on May 23, 2007 13:16:01 GMT
Hi hun thinking about you today hope all went well. Hugz claire x  |
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clarey
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Post by clarey on May 23, 2007 20:49:42 GMT
Hi Helen,
Really hope today went OK. Thinking of you,
Love Clareyxx
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Post by jmontan27 on May 31, 2007 21:22:00 GMT
Hi Helen, just caught up on your diary and the awful time you are having lately. Just want you to know that you are in my thoughts.
J xxxxx
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Post by helenr on Jun 1, 2007 19:09:29 GMT
Thanks J,
am still really tired, mind you am constantly flying between here and Ireland to see mum, so its no surprise.
Flo is still nowhere to be seen, yeah!
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Post by helenr on Jun 9, 2007 20:44:52 GMT
Had a wonderful family day today at the beach, am now sitting with glass of wine and galaxy ice cream. Mmmm.
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