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Post by winegirl on Oct 15, 2007 21:40:18 GMT
Good luck with the HV appt hun, let us know how you go x
Winegirl x
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Post by Scarlet on Oct 16, 2007 12:01:07 GMT
Never feel guilty for taking up time hun, we will gladly help you in any way we can, so never be afraid to ask. We are/have been where you are and know it can be very lonely place, so take help whereever you can get it.
I think it's good news that your HV has suggested some counselling. It will be a good thing for you hun.
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Post by 2girls on Oct 16, 2007 17:54:10 GMT
Good to know I can come on here and get lots of supprot - you're all wonderful - THANK YOU !!!!! Up + down day , had post natal check at hosp today , which was all fine , had time away from girls , so felt ok , but when back with them went to pot again a bit !!!! Have lots to do , but don't quite kow where to start , so tend to go shopping , don't know if it's the distraction , but tend to feel ok when out , occasionally paranoid that people looking at us , and oldest daughter is very vocal so can get embarrassing - tells people off for looking at her little sister !!!!! At home though feel quite claustrophobic and panicky . Felt today like I was waiting outside headteachers office to be in trouble if that makes sense , dreading something , but not quite sure what !!!!!! Think the counselling will be good , just scared , was quite comfortable as I was and know it will be hard work !!!!!!!!! I'll probably try to find something through church , then know fits in with my beliefs etc , don't know if that makes sense ?? Most of what I have to say doesn't so don't worry- baby brain ( nothing to do with pni !!!!!!!!!!)Hope everyone else is doing ok ? xxx
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Post by winegirl on Oct 16, 2007 19:26:59 GMT
Hi 2girls
Glad you have had a few ups today! Hope you keep getting more and more of them. Let us know how you get on with finding some councelling to suit you.
And i know what you meab about baby brain, i can barely string a sentance together most days still!
Winegirl x
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Post by Jay on Oct 16, 2007 19:27:44 GMT
Hi, Thanks for writing to me in my diary.
You are no trouble at all, and you are not moaning or writing too much here. It always feels that what people write needs to come out, and where better to do this than here with people who understand. I have found wonderful support from people, and they have kept me going when things have been quite tough.
I am glad your old h/v has gone, I don't know what she would ahve thought to us all. lol lol Your new h/v sounds good. I think that having more talking therapy would help and if its on offer-grab it. I seem to think that you are not taking any antid's [not sure if that's right], but if your depression and panics etc keep going have a think about them. I started new antid's about a month ago and they have settled things, so life is getting easier.
Hugs Jay xx
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Post by gilly on Oct 24, 2007 14:14:59 GMT
HI 2 girls
of course i didnt mind you posting on my thread i felt bad about gate crashing your diary!! now that finlays birthday is over i do feel much better thanx. i know what you mean by feeling dread but not sure of quite what i seem to feel that a lot.
just wanted to say hi and glad you are getting the support you deserve from all here.
lots of love xxx
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