Post by cristy on Nov 28, 2007 10:29:59 GMT
Hi all, first time i'v been on this site n just want a little advice really... had a beautiful baby girl (Ella) on the 6th of march this year, shes nearly nine months old now and its now that im just starting to feel a bit overwhelmed by everything, I mean my whole life involves looking after ella, feeding her, changing her, making sure she doesnthurt herself, i think iv started to feel like this now because shes at the age you cant leave her for a second without her doing something, i mean i go to the bathroom and have to take her with me!! or put her n her cot and she'll just scream. The thing is im never out of the house EVER except to go to shops when il have ella with me or to my parents with ella with me, my husband just doesnt understand, i drop hints, i even ask to go out and leave ella with my parents but as he works he enjoys spending the time he has at home with ella, so i dont want to begrudge him f that. The thing is i just need that space once a week, some quality time for just the two of us, when ican relax and not by worrying about ella but he just doesnt understand it, am i beign selfish to want this, other mothers dont feel lke this about being at hoem all day, am i being silly?
