Hi Louise
I almost missed you in this section - I have just seen your introduction in the intro thread here:
veritee.proboards7.com/index.cgi?board=intro&action=display&n=1&thread=3498&page=6but I will reply here to give you an individual answer
It is great that you have found us and a big welcome to the forum -
We are here if you want to chat anytime whatever your issue and you do not have to feel that you are currently suffering PNI - or pre natal illness - with your current PG as this forum is for survivors of PNI as well as current sufferers.
I feel that even though we do all recover survivors sometimes can have issues they need to talk over with those who have suffered PNI that are unique to suffering PNI and so we are always here for survivors too
and with subsequent PG we will always fear a return of PNI even if it does not happen so of course we need a little extra support then if we are PG and do not as yet know if we will get PNI after the birth - this prospect can be very scary as no one knows what is going to happen once your baby is born....
But whatever does happen for you now and after the birth this forum is here
You say you are using 'progesterone to assist maintaining pg ' you are absolutely right that progesterone is both used to assist maintaining pg and was also proposed as preventative of PNI by Katharina Dalton as outlines in her book Depression After Childbirth, . ISBN: 0-19-263277-9.
I do not know as a layperson if it does work. I had a good experience with it after my child was born and when I had PNI as it definitely helped me and others have also have felt it worked and others that it did not .
but I will say that the progesterone therapy is not supported in England at least by many PNI specialists so I really do not know if it is effective . However I used it with no ill effects and as it will do no harm at least I would say that it is worth a try to use it for PNI.
As to any other medication it sounds like you have enough of this as you could need but I wonder if you have enough support or have tired any talking therapies?
or whether you have any support from friends or relatives/
You especially do not mention y0our partner or whether he is supportive?
Is your partner supportive, does he understand your PNI and what you are experiencing?If the answer is no - many here have also had this situation. My husband understands now but it took him many years to get to this point - but I just wondered how it is between your partner and you as you have not mentioned what support you are getting from friends, partner and family??
I understand not wanting your older child to suffer while you go through this pg and perhaps subsequent PNI but I am also sure that he will not .
Mostly it is the woman with PNI that suffers , we mostly protect our children form the worst of PNI and it is not them that suffer but us.
I can say this from the perspective of supporting many other women with PNI for over 10 years and from now having a 17 year old daughter who is now able to say how my PNI affected her can not remember my being ill at all and feels I did a good job when she was young ( things are not always as good between us now but then she is a teenager and I am menopausal)
We have had quite a few English and English speaking women form Spain using this forum over the years , I suppose with the lack of 'talking therapies ' in Spain and help for women with PNI in Spain together with the large ex-pat community that exists there this is to be expected .
One of the first women I supported directly through the Internet for PNI in 1998 lived in Spain and we continue to have women who live there as you do - some have been English speaking Spanish others ex-pat British
of you think it will help others please feel free to print off a poster about the forum form our web site and post it in places where mothers and babies go in Spain, as the more the merrier - this forum functions because of the large number of women using it that can relate to other womens situations
Anyway I just wanted to say this forum is here if you need us - even if I or the moderators are not around there is always a sufferer or a survivor who will relate to you and who will answer ( post in the main sections if you want a quicker response)
Welcome
VeriteeXX