Post by Angela on Jan 31, 2003 23:44:37 GMT
Thankyou Veritee
Your web site is a releif beyond words. I was a nursery nurse for 3 years, the children in my care was 12 weeks to 18 months and I coped great and loved my job. There were woman in my work who's children were in my care who suffered from PND and there kids were in my nursery who had placement because there mums doctors or phsyciatrists gave us letters of recommendation that it would be beneficial for mother and child that a placement and time apart would be beneficial for both.
I had years of study experience to understand this but looked at these beautiful children and thought after the mums had left, defenitley not in a bad way, How can these girls not want these great kids?
Well all my years of studying and even practical experience could never make me fully understand. I've wanted to leave my daughter and husband twice since my daughter has been born.
My husband is a fantastic man and a great dad and I take alot out on him as I feel so jealous that he can go out there and work and speak to people during the day.
Selfish as this is I know it sounds terrible. I'm now aiming to finish my course in councelling for Marie Curie somthing thats in line with my current job and although I won't be able to follow this through full time until my daughter goes to school it has been somthing to aim for and to be hounest thats a huge part of what I've needed to have aims and goals eases things a little.
If it wasn't for your forums I really would feel as though I was trully a bad person to my daughter by being so down. I feel normal and in tune with people on your website. Thankyou for not forgetting your PND experiences and to put it out there to help other mums who really are crying out for understanding within other woman as at the end of the day we are so judgmental as woman but as mums it is so different.
Please keep up all your good work from behalf of me and all the other mums that have turned to your forums for help.
With greatest kindest regards
Angela
Your web site is a releif beyond words. I was a nursery nurse for 3 years, the children in my care was 12 weeks to 18 months and I coped great and loved my job. There were woman in my work who's children were in my care who suffered from PND and there kids were in my nursery who had placement because there mums doctors or phsyciatrists gave us letters of recommendation that it would be beneficial for mother and child that a placement and time apart would be beneficial for both.
I had years of study experience to understand this but looked at these beautiful children and thought after the mums had left, defenitley not in a bad way, How can these girls not want these great kids?
Well all my years of studying and even practical experience could never make me fully understand. I've wanted to leave my daughter and husband twice since my daughter has been born.
My husband is a fantastic man and a great dad and I take alot out on him as I feel so jealous that he can go out there and work and speak to people during the day.
Selfish as this is I know it sounds terrible. I'm now aiming to finish my course in councelling for Marie Curie somthing thats in line with my current job and although I won't be able to follow this through full time until my daughter goes to school it has been somthing to aim for and to be hounest thats a huge part of what I've needed to have aims and goals eases things a little.
If it wasn't for your forums I really would feel as though I was trully a bad person to my daughter by being so down. I feel normal and in tune with people on your website. Thankyou for not forgetting your PND experiences and to put it out there to help other mums who really are crying out for understanding within other woman as at the end of the day we are so judgmental as woman but as mums it is so different.
Please keep up all your good work from behalf of me and all the other mums that have turned to your forums for help.
With greatest kindest regards
Angela
