Fed up of the mind games!!

[phild09]

I am lucky as mine and my OH sex life is great, after 2.5 years together and a 7 month old LO. I had a caesarean that I recovered from super quick, and we were back having sex within 4 weeks.
However, every time I try and initiate sex, he refuses (the usual excuses - tired, not in the mood, etc) EVERY TIME. I know he isn't lacking in sex drive, as if I don't initiate it, or mention it, he is obsessed and wants sex all the time! It's like he's playing mind games with me. Whenever he initiates it - mostly I do, sometimes I'm not in the mood. But EVERY damn time I try - he just turns me down! It's so frustrating. I thought 'playing hard to get' was something I left behind in Year Eleven. Apparently not
I try and talk to him about it but either he says it's a coincidence (which it definitely isn't), or that "If there's always biscuits in the tin, the last thing you want is biscuits". Of course I don't want him to sleep with me if he doesn't want to, but I'm fed up of being rejected all the time.....
Has anyone else had similar??

[winegirl]

Unfortunately I have the opposite problem - there are NEVER biscuits in my tin, but my hubby always wants them!! It is very odd, can you remember him being like this when you initiated sex before having baby??

WG x

[jemima]

It's the same as winegirl for me too I'm afraid, though my hubby does have a few crumbs occasionally!
Perhaps your hubby just wants to exercise a bit of control.