jemma
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Post by jemma on Jan 26, 2011 13:26:51 GMT
she realy cant make you go if you dont want to , and as you will well no when you are on you feel like sh*t most of the time and cant be bothered pni or not xxx
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Post by Victoria on Jan 26, 2011 16:07:56 GMT
Nobody can make you do something you dont want to. Same as Juppster I can see the care co-ordinators point but then at your time of the month when things can seem worse for a lot of ppl, it is so hard. I agree with Juppster too about maybe going out but not eating? Even if you can just go for a little walk and straight back for the fresh air and getting out of the house. It doesnt need to be far. And then take it easy. If you are tired, there is no point exhausting yourself as that wont help. xx
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Post by kelly30staples on Jan 27, 2011 14:10:37 GMT
hi guys
my care co-ordinator come to me as i was that bad as i am today i really am struggling last 2 days
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jemma
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Post by jemma on Jan 27, 2011 16:30:37 GMT
what did she have to say xx
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Post by butterfly on Jan 27, 2011 19:58:52 GMT
Hi kelly
Sorry to hear your having a tough time and struggerling a bit at the moment. Its apparently very normal for the illness to get "blips" the nature of the beast!
Hope your co-odinator was helpful, somedays I am glad I don't have hcp hoovering over me and other days I want them lol
Take care
Bf x
Ps I am in major blip land at the moment. Your not alone! X
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Post by Weeble on Jan 27, 2011 20:16:27 GMT
Hi Kelly
This is so hard, I know you don't know what triggered you, but if I go to far and do too much I crash. Maybe you were right you should have stayed home.
Hope things are a bit easier now.
Kat
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Post by kelly30staples on Jan 28, 2011 11:01:03 GMT
thanks guys feeling no better today my emotions are all over still not dressed meant to be going into town to see care co-ordinator but just not got the energy at all i know i'm letting myself down not going oh i'm just so confused and angry i keep snapping at oh i want him to be in my head so he knows how i feel he is trying tho bles him i'm just being a complete bitch to him i cant help it  i just want this to end kelly xxx |
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Post by Victoria on Jan 28, 2011 14:04:01 GMT
Hang on in there Kelly. I have posted a poem on Kats diary it might help you. You cant help being this way. I know so how you feel about wishing your oh could be in your head to understand how this feels. It is impossible to explain to someone. Just explain to him, that even when you are being horrid, you are not doing it to hurt him, it is just that he is the closest one to you, who you feel the most comfortable with, and need to vent your distress out on someone. Ask him not to take it personally as you cant help it, but are not doing it on purpose you are just struggling to keep a lid on your emotions. Hopefully he will then understand you are not being this way because of him, you feel safe enough with him to be able to vent at him. It will end hunny, it really will, and you will get better, you just have to keep believing that, even when at rock bottom. Keep believing that this is a temporary shit feeling. xxx
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Post by kelly30staples on Jan 28, 2011 16:11:54 GMT
thank you fsg
been for a walk this afternoon with oh just round the river but its something
cant wait to feel normal again in fact what is normal lol
xxxx
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Post by juppster on Jan 28, 2011 16:54:42 GMT
Thats a good question Kelly!! I think what i've learnt to accept is that i will never feel completely like i was, i think its impossible too after everything we have suffered, but maybe we can come out of this stronger and more compassionate.
Glad you managed to get out for a walk today, anything is better than nothing. What are your plans for the weekend? Hope you have a peaceful evening x
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Post by jemma on Jan 28, 2011 18:49:03 GMT
normal ? hummm
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Post by Victoria on Jan 28, 2011 20:50:13 GMT
Normal is actually the unusual and what ppl think is unusual, is usually the norm. xxx
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Post by kelly30staples on Jan 29, 2011 9:44:55 GMT
still feeling so low i dont know hats happend but serioulsy cant take anymore
got a meeting on the 3rd with cpn her manager somefrom a tac (team around a child) and kids school head teacher plus they want mum and other half there i'm scared really really scared xxx
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Post by juppster on Jan 29, 2011 14:12:31 GMT
I know you're really scared honey i truely do, but this may be your opportunity to tell these people how much you are struggling and tell them you need extra help. Sometimes it takes something like this for people to sit up and listen to you. HOw are you doing now sweets? x
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Post by Victoria on Jan 31, 2011 13:32:55 GMT
Be strong Kelly. They want to help you so try to relax a bit and be honest with them. You are in control but you have to really tell them how you feel so they can work out what you need to improve things. It is very scary, but you have to grip hold of yourself, and push through the fear. As Juppster says, they need to listen to you now. xxx
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