hi x

[lollie]

Hi.
Looking for someone to tell me I am gonna be fine and this is just a phase x
I have a beautiful 6 month old girl who is perfect and such a happy baby. However she is producing lots of green nappies which I had thought were due to weaning. Now other mums are saying it is a bug or something and I am now worrying I should have taken her to doc ages ago (we go thursday)
She has always been a sicky baby but that has increased quite a bit. I am planning out wedding for March. , our house is in a state. All in all am feeling overwhelmed and weepy all the time now. And physically I am at worst. Had no issues during pregnancy but now back hurts, shoulders , knees, calves ...feeling physically and mentally wrecked. Sorry to whinge .
Just want to stop feeling so rubbish! X

[monica]

Hello and welcome

Things sound tough for you. Well done though for identifying all is not well. You have an awful lot on ur plate - your baby not feeling too good, wedding to plan.

How long have you had this feeling of being overwhelmed? If it's lingering then this good be pni . I would advise you to talk things through with ur Dr . Just off loading can help hugely and putting plans in place to make life a bit easier for you might be enough. Other options are meds and or counselling .

Things will improve I promise. Having a baby is a hugely life changing experience with enormous demands and worries. I'm sure your baby will be fine - there are lots of bugs about but if the dodgy tummy issue is lingering it's always a good idea to get advice to get reassurance if nothing else.

Please keep talking - many women feel similarly to you so you're not alone .

Monica