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Post by angel on Oct 4, 2006 9:36:08 GMT
Hey Fran
It is so good to hear from you i'm glad that everything seems to be going well with the pregnancy. I hope you are taking things easy. Keep letting us know how you are.
Take Care
Angel
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Post by francoise on Oct 20, 2006 21:24:43 GMT
hi
thanks
havent got time right now to put much really, came home from hospital after over two weeks just last night so just trying to catch up now , had to see people already due to pni and it got quite urgent a few times and the baby is only twelve days old so on prozac now and review on monday , baby still not well but go into that tomorrow , hope ure all ok ,
love francoise xxxxxxxxxx
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Post by Veritee on Oct 20, 2006 22:12:35 GMT
Oh Fran We have all been gunning for you...
Bam02 let us know what happened re your baby's birth and the Collodion and we were waiting to hear as Bam has not been able to log into the forum for a few days for some reason, so I did not know you were home till now.
But I am so glad you are both home and therefore your baby's infection is under control or gone?
Take your time and if any of us or the site can help we are all here for you and hope we can?
Also I know its not likely but if you wanted to stay with me in Cornwall while Daz is working here you really are welcome to stay in my flat - where abouts is he working by the way ? is it anywhere near me , i am between Falmouth and Helston
i am sorry i have not asked you that before - i really was not with it over the summer myself at all!!
i am coming out of it , i think it was delayed shock at the accident and the operation in January, as well as stuff with caja and Barry - but I am getting it together again now
But I am so sorry i did not respond to your PM or message after I sent you the tee shirt etc - i just was not on the forum then at all!!
Please let us know how you are and keep us in touch?
Love VeeXX
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Post by cheshire on Oct 21, 2006 10:44:14 GMT
Hi Fran
I'm really glad too that you're both home.
We've been thinking of you XxX
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Post by francoise on Oct 25, 2006 10:02:42 GMT
thankyou so much for the flowers they are so gorgeous , i came down stairs half dead and got them and its so ace, given me a real boost , have been meaning to answer your post to vee and wendy and everyone tryting to get a minute but its these nights and the bathing and waxing and creaming seems to just take up every minute , god knows what i will do when daz goes back to work next week , i couldnt come down to cornwall vee but thanks , not while shes this young , i would need a hell of alot of stuff with me because of her skin and she has to see the skin doc loads for a while until her new skin comes thru properly , shes loads better though , all this care is paying off and she doesnt look as bad as she did but she is on anti biotics but orally and no drips anymore thank god , bless her she went thru hell she did , she had to have constant pain killers because her skin was so bad , she is milder than leon but becauseof that it ended up worse because the skin took longer to peel , its wierd isnt it but that is how it works with this . anyway will try and put some pics up , shes got jet black hair and is tiny , she is the spit of me my mum says , i cant see it though , but she doesnt look like anyone really and to em , well its been a rough few weeks , the birth was great though , hurt like mad but had a wonderful midwife and it wasnt to bad , it was induced coz i did say did i she was transverse and had to be turned , well that hurt but the inducement was an experience too , yeah so went nuts in hossy and had to have various visits and then fine for a bit but then it all just came flooding back so saw the doc and back on prozac and having phone calls alot which im trying to get rid of some as i need to try and get the odd nap in the day to catch up but yeah ythe bottom line is i have got pni again and its so similiar to last time its uncanny , every physical symptom apart from the breathing one has come back , but yeah hey i know its not forever and shes so gorgeous girls , i love her so much , its just so hard with watching leon with her so he doesnt hurt her accidently , he does love her but hes always trying to pat her and love her up , ah well try and get on later , but thanks again the flowers are beautiful and i love them
francoise xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by newwie on Oct 28, 2006 17:59:49 GMT
Hi
I have just spotted this thread too. I dodnt know you were pregnant and wish you all th eluck in the world. She must be here by now hope all went well. I thought you ha just moved on as havent heard from you in a while silly me eh..
Newwie
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Post by Susie on Nov 5, 2006 9:33:49 GMT
Hi Fran, Don't know if you will remember me but I do look in every now and again and I just realised that you have had the baby!! Congratulations, I am so pleased for you, keep talking about how you are feeling, you know you will get so much support on here, take care of yourself and all your wonderful kids, love ya babe Sus xxxxxx
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Post by cheshire on Nov 5, 2006 17:20:49 GMT
Fran,
Like Susie and newwie - been thinking of youx
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Post by chica on Nov 5, 2006 18:34:37 GMT
Hi Francoise, I have just spotted this thread, so I am sorry for the delayed response. I just wanted to say that I know that you do not know me, but I just want to say thank you to you for all your previous posts, they really did help me. So I guess it is now my turn.. I want to say first a very big and warm congratulations on your little girl, I am so glad she arrived safely, Secondly I am sorry that for you that the PNI has returned, but thankfully you knew what all the signs are. Maybe this time round I may be of some small comfort or help to you. Wishing you all the very best. Lots of Love and Hugs Chica
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Post by francoise on Nov 7, 2006 11:46:27 GMT
hi girls
so sorry just been so busy , its all this extra stuff coz melodys skin and constant visits to outpatients to get it checked , more swabs have gone off and find out in the morning if its yet another skin infection formed
but anyway thanks susie , actually im so much better , i stopped taking the prozac coz i couldnt wake up at night on them and since then just got back ache and been to everything and feel pretty normal , dont know why , dont really understand any of it but yeah think i might of just been exhausted before and changed the time i was going to bed to the kids time and that has helped alot , might just be a GOOD blip but yeah daz is off to cornwall end of the month to , so be on my own , , but thanks susie , course i remember you , its like five minutes aint it , hehehe
wendy pm ure number hun , lost it and thanks babe
chica , thankks for that post , real nice of you to post to me , i used to be on alot , went completely into pni and then got pregnant and here i am post four weeks and feeling ok but must try and get on here more as im just so hectic but still must try , thankyou and hope ure well
hey newwie shes gorgeous dark black hair and tiny little thing , shes so cute bless her , got little bent fingers like me , the only one out of the four of them ,
hey vee ill phone u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
fran xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by francoise on Nov 10, 2006 9:28:55 GMT
oh yeah forgot to say daz has his snip on the 30th of this month , whoopee
fran xx
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Post by Veritee on Nov 10, 2006 20:05:12 GMT
Hiya Fran
I keep missing you here ! i sent you a PM earlier
I know you must be very busy - any baby is hectic but you have a toddler and two older ones and now a baby with extra needs due to the collodium
Quite honestly i do not know how you do it you are superwoman!!
As to Daz and the snip, I take it you will not be having any more? LOL When does daz come to Cornwall? You know you are always welcome to visit ?
veriteeXX
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Post by francoise on Nov 18, 2006 20:01:37 GMT
hi vee
shes colicy and has a cold like i told u in the pm , its hell, it takes hours to give her a bottle and then she is crying all the time , all evening practically , im not superwoman , im falling apart now at the first sign of trouble i think , well maybe not the first but the first one after gaining some kind of organisation , its all gone to pot but anyway yeah a week thursday the snip and then that sunday cornwall
fran xxxxx
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Post by Veritee on Nov 18, 2006 21:31:40 GMT
Oh Fran
just came on - as i am in the middle of trying to do a college module so I am on line but not looking at the forum.
I Am sorry that Melody is not feeling right - and that you are not either Anytime you want some support - I am not that informed about baby care as it was a long time ago and I only ever had one - but you know where I am?
I suppose it always gets you when your baby is ill the most - i remember walking up and down up and down - the same bit of floor when Caja started to haver colic, she started this at about 2 months and she could cry 2o odd hours at a time it was really awful so i know what you mean
you have done so well up to now i am hoping that this is just a blip caused by her being colicky!! it is not your fault, a lot of babies get colic and it is hell to get through even if you have never had PNI
How is her skin - is she out of having infections ? Is that OK now? God daz is brave to have he snip Thus and then travel to work in Cornwall on Sunday - but we will not worry about that ! LOL if he is near me he is welcome to a cup of tea - Barry is home and I am sure he would take him for a beer!!
But how long is he gong to be away? - is he comming home at weekends? do you have any extra help coming in? VeriteeXX
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Post by francoise on Nov 24, 2006 15:35:57 GMT
thanks vee
well her skin is loads better , easily let slip though at times but trying dead hard to combat it by frequent bathing and creaming as u know , yeah but loooking good , thank god , as for her colicky periods , changed the milk and using stuff so seems alot better , shes not put on as much weight this last week , shes just ten pounds now but hopefully this next week will see an improvement,
as for daz yeah sunday hes going , to be honest vee it might be less work in here as he does very very little and hes an extra workload in himself but i spose he does hold her sometimes and bath leon so maybe i will notice it , yeah hes coming home at weekends , not sure how many weeks yet , three up until christmas and then who knows , might be finished then or there maybe loads more , such good dosh though vee, luckily i sorted christmas out ages ago , before i had melody so theres nothing to do except send chrimbo cards and put the tree up , not really bothering this year with loads of food as so much was wasted in prevoius years , anyway hows you doing and ure preps
francoise xxxxx
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