What if??

[stevensmummy]

HELP

I have a worrying feeling in the back oif my mind that I may be pregnant!

Recently I have been feeling really terrible. Sickness, headaches, grumpy. I've also felt crampy in my stomach. I have a baby now 7months and I am breast feeding still. I also have a coil. But I am showing all the signs i was when pregnant with my second. A close friend also asked if I was pregnant as I apparently looked like I was. He guessed very early on with my last one and now he has put all the more doubts in my head.

I'm afraid to take a test.

Is pni taking me for the run around? I need someone to shake some sense into me!!!

Sarah x

[gizmoracer]

{{Shake shake}}

Did that help? Take a deep breath and do a test hun. It will save you alot of anxiety and worry. I have had a few occasions where I have shown those all so familiar signs but it has been a false alarm. If you do a test you will know (can get some early ones now) Then can take it from there, you could be worring about nothing.

[winegirl]

Hi Sarah

Just to put your mind at rest that I too have had loads of occasions where i have had all those early pregnancy symptoms and they have been false alarms. Do as Giz suggests and do the test, then you wont have to be so worried anymore!

Let us know how it goes babes?

WG x

[monica]

Hi

Take the test - althogh stressful at least you'll know for sure and you won't have to worry about the what ifs.

You might not be pregnant. We're trying for a baby and this month my boobs felt tender, I seemd to go off caffeine, going to loo alot but I wasn't pregnany, an dthis might be the case for you.

Let us know how you get on

Monica

[stevensmummy]

Hi girls,

OMG, I cant believe I'm worrying about this. I have a coil in for gods sake! Did I not go and have a look at google about the mirena and pregnany. It apparently increases the chances of eptopic preg. Its also only98% effective!!

I never look for the strings either so I did last night. Can you believe I couldnt find them but I had another try later and I did so thats a good sign I guess.

I'm going to get a test. I dont whant my OH or anyone else knowin about it so I'll have to wait a few days till its just me and the kids.

I'll keep you posted xx

[winegirl]

A few days?! God you'll be pulling yur hair out! I am sure the coil will have done its job hun, but glad you are doing the test to make sure!

Take Care

WG x

[Scarlet]

Well Sarah, did you take the test? Can you buy one and just take it in the loo with you when no-nes looking?

Scarlet
xxxx

[stevensmummy]

Oh god girls, i'm getting worried.

I keep looking in the mirror and thinking god I even look like I have a bump!

I think I might go down to the shop 2morow afternoon, just walk down and go to the toilet at the supermarket and do it.

I'll let you know as soon as

Thanks girls xxx

[monica]

Hi

Thinking of you sweetheart - with you all the wayxxx

All the best

Monica

[stevensmummy]

I've still not started and I've chickened out of buying a test 2x now.

What am I going to do? I cant even think. Its not the end of the world if I am but I'm shitting it none the less!

[cheshire]

Any news?x

[Scarlet]

Go get that test hun.

xxxx

[stevensmummy]

I will, I will.

I've not really got the chance over the nxt few days I dont want my OH or anyone to know incase I'm just being paranoid.

You think I could wait to see if my nxt period comes?
If I am what will happen? Surely that coil cant stay there, can it?

[monica]

I know it's hard butyou should do the test. Not knowing is eating you up and if you do the test you will know one way or another. Why don't you try telling oh? He may be able to support you and if th eresult is positve at least he'll be there to give you a hug.

Monica

[stevensmummy]

I know i just dont know what to say. I'm afriad of what might happen if I am. What about the coil? What if it has to come out and I lose it. I couldnt bear that. I'm not scared about being poss preg. That would be fine I dont mind another baby really, would be difficult but its not a horrible thing.

x