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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 12, 2008 21:52:18 GMT
U guys are the greatest, dont know what i'd do without you!!!!
Right Scarlet hun, I'm going to have a poke about and see if I can even find my cervix, god knows how i'll manage that its making me feel sick thinking about it! But I'll see how it feels anyway.
Yep u guessed right, he seems to think we need to get plenty practice in!
But a question, is it normal for some to run back out again, or am I suposed to stick my bum in the air to hold it in? Lol.
Also, I read somewhere, i cant remember where tho, that we should use up his supplies to get more female sperm. U heard of that? He thinks its a great idea!! He calls them superman and superwoman sperms. Hes such a twit!
Off to practice, just incase!!
xx
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Post by Scarlet on Jun 12, 2008 22:07:32 GMT
LOL Sarah wot you doing here girl, shouldn't you be making babies. ;D You are right lots of sex for a girl (but all upto 2 days before ovulation), and save the sperm for a boy and have one night of passion during ovulation time, I've heard that as well hun. Better get practicing. Sweet dreams xxxx
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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 12, 2008 22:11:55 GMT
Caution this is disgusting!
I had to come back and tell you.
Right Scarlet, I found it. Eventually! I was told when having the boys I had a tilted cervix, and when I did find its sort of tilted back. But now heres the yuck bit. Its still hard and lumpy. I fuond the wee hole but its too tight to get my finger in even, so I cant be anywhere near ovulation, although I'm creamy mucus. How long does it take to get like that, as according to that fertility friend thing, creamy mucus is nearing the ovulation by about a week. I'm confused!
xx
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Post by Scarlet on Jun 12, 2008 22:33:48 GMT
Sounds fine to me hun, are you charting? could be a week off ovulation, it will soften over the next few days no doubt and mucus will become more abundant. Better get some practice in, weekend sounds good for baby making . x
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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 14, 2008 11:45:31 GMT
Hi Guys,
Couldnt get on the site yest at all, not sure what was wrong. Just ept saying it was unavailable at this time or something like that.
Anyway back to the matter in hand.
I have been charting but my free membership is now out and I refuse to pay for it. So I'm charting myself now. I'm not an idiot so surely i'll manage. With tutors like you guys I'll be fine.
I'm creamy, but much more than b4. Still low, but medium firmness and medium opening. So gettin there. Like you say scarlet about a week I think. So does that mean I'm planning for bout 3-4 days for my timing? So about tue wed, as i reckon i'd be about fri sat.
Is there also something about doing ir more often to remover some boy sperm?
Practice in line, last nite we wer out at a engagement so I was too tired to practice but i warned him 2nite will have to make up for it.
Have a nice wkend guys
xx
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Post by winegirl on Jun 14, 2008 12:01:13 GMT
LOL! Its odd to believe we are even having this conversation! Do it like hell for 4 days leading up to Ovulation then stop. By sprem cant live long enough to wait for ovulation but girl sperm can! So basically Tuesday to Friday, go for it LOL! OOOh what an exciting week your hubby has ahead of him.... WG xxx
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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 15, 2008 16:57:00 GMT
This is all soooo confusing!!!!
I reckon i could be ovulating today. i didnt predict it to be today but. i have a temp dip, and spotting and I feel sort of painful. So looking at the histoy in the fert freind, I could very well be ovulating. But of course I cant tell until 2moro for the temp increase. My cervix is practically undetectable. Its so high up i could hardly even reach it, and really squishy.
other poss is that its all to pot from having the coil in. I havn't found anything about wating for a settled patern b4 trying. So maybe I am ovulating. i told him to stay off me 2nite just incase!
Hope you're all havin a nice wkend. My LO's 3rd b'day 2moro. My parents are over and took the two of them to toys'r'us for a present while Oh and I made his trampoline. i cant wait for him to come home to see his face. he'll love it!
Also had a bit of a ho0ha with the inlaws 2day. Now tell me if I'm being bitchy. Honestly. FIL was cutting my grass, we dont have a mower, for wks now and it was seriously overgrown. He needed to strim it. He then proceeded to say it was too wet to cut with the mower and left me to rake it up. Wich I did but it was a mess grass everywhere. So this am I called and asked, if he coould come cut it so it picks up all the bits and tidies it up for the trampoline. My MIL's response was oh well, I dont think so, didnt you rake it. i sais yes but its a mess, and I cant put it up so there is grass trailed into the house from him playing. Oh well he wont have time, SIL is coming over with grant, nephew, and hes more important to see, steven will just have to hav his b'day another day! That was actually what she said. His b'day is 2moro but we are away so I asked them to come see him as I knew they wouldnt get to see him. Her response again was, oh but grants coming, we wont get a chance, its not that important surely. I, nicely, said oh well never mind, I'll sort it out myself. i was furious. Is that me being a bitch? tell me honest guys, it really upset me. Its not the first time I've been told grant is more imp. Shes lucky I was on the phone or she'd have gotten more of an arguement. I'm glad it was the phone as I dont trust myself to keep cool, lol.
kind of ruins the b'day atmosphere tho. I dont care, i'm going to make sure he loves it anyway, without them!
love and hugs guys, dont know what i'd do without you
xx
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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 15, 2008 19:53:03 GMT
My parents returned with the boys and the look on his face made it all worthwhile. Even without the in-laws he had a magic evening, he doesnt care who comes or whos more important than the other. He loved the trampoline and its them who missed out not seeing him.
I was angry about their response but now I have time to come to my cool I realise that its not steven whos missing out, its them. If they think that Grant is more important than my kids thats their problem. My boys are lovely kids and love everyone. Steven is a typical cheeky little man and stuart is a real ladies man loving everyone, always. I love my children and its not me who is losing out. Its times like this i realise I have risen above pni, those days are now drifting into my past and I feel ready to move on with my life. I think I could finally be out of the darkness!
xx
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Post by winegirl on Jun 15, 2008 19:58:36 GMT
Hi Sarah
Thats exactly the attitude! I would have been angry too, but in reality the inlaws are the only one missing out here! I hope he has a lovely birthday babes and enjoys all the attention from his mummy xx
So no sex this week then? LOL x Your pattern could be out for a while initially since coming off the coil so give it some time to settle. You have donw well to figure out the cervix thing - I never could! Don't even know where to look for it!
You going anywhere tomorrow or just letting the wee one play with his new toys at home? Your folks were brave to take them to Toys R Us, I would never dare take my LO as I dont think we would ever get out! LOL
Hope you are having a lovely evening.
WG xx
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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 15, 2008 20:25:41 GMT
Cheers love, you made my mind up. I was starting to think i was insane!
Yep brave, they were there for about an hr and a half. dad has a major hangover too lol. Serves him right!
Going to play with his friend on new trampoline and then going for tea to my parents.
I was wondering if it could be it playing up with the coild. As I started a period 2 days after removal. So this could be the start of my real period. But my cervix is all squishy. I just dont know, have to wait for anutie Scarlet to interpret it for me!
xxx
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Post by winegirl on Jun 15, 2008 20:31:54 GMT
I would say if your cervix is squishy then its ovulation time. But I would still give it a couple of months for things to settle into a pattern.
have a lovely time tomorrow hunx x
WG x
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Post by Scarlet on Jun 16, 2008 12:38:08 GMT
Me too, I would say squishy means soon to be ovulating Miss Sarah. On your chart, what day are you on hun? I think by the sounds of it you could be ovulating soon, are you on day 8 or 9? Also what about CM? I found that CM is an easier way to predict ovulation, rather than cervix checking which can be a bit ambiguous. I think if you ovulate on Friday, then you should be 'at it' tonight and tomorrow night. Like WG said it takes a couple of months to get to know your own body, and then you will recognise the signs easier and know when the time is right for baby making, and in your case... going for pink. ;D xxx
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Post by winegirl on Jun 16, 2008 15:05:57 GMT
I love this part in your diary hun and wonder if we could have a special `baby making section' on the board... x
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Post by Scarlet on Jun 16, 2008 15:36:48 GMT
WG and me will open our own fertility clinic I think , what do you reckon WG? ? ;D Just read the part you mentioned about your coil hun, methinks you may have to chart for a couple more months yet before you can be sure of ovulation time to go for pink. Honestly you will get real good at it (charting, temp, CM and cervical changes), I could pinpoint my own ovulation to the day. xxxxx
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Post by stevensmummy on Jun 22, 2008 20:53:37 GMT
Hi guys,
I've had such a hectic week, its hard to believe its sunday already.
Mon was stevens b'day, tue was catalouge deliver and toddlers then pm childminding meeting, wed was creche and my housework, pm kleeneze meeting, thur catalogues again then housework and childminding meeting om, fri was catalogues again then riding the horses, sat was a day out for steven at the tractors and catching up with party stuff then today it was stevens and stuarts party. I've had such a hectic wek. Only just been manageing time to chart!
But on the charting side.
period finnished, on day 8 of cycle, really creamy, getting stringly and feel rather wet. cervix getting higher, and a little soft. So I'm thinking i should be in the nxt few days. I guess tonight or 2morow will be the days, if I'm planning right. temp stable at about 36 too.
Right I'm off to do Oh's time sheets for work then off to bed!!!!! lol.
Remind me to tell you about the catalogues and childminding course I'm doing and what the woman said about pni!
love and hugs xxxx
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