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Post by cokey on Dec 24, 2008 21:28:21 GMT
Happy Christmas L, hope 2009 is a good year for you xxxx
Cokey xxx
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Post by tabbysmum on Dec 29, 2008 20:56:37 GMT
Hi all
Just a quick hello, nothing to report, nothings changed, no better no worse. Been ill for the past 2 or 3 weeks with flu and a chest infection, have managed to crack a rib with all the coughing so am now in agony - never rains but it pours! Have had a very pleasant christmas and done nothing but eat, I'm at the point now of throwing all the junk food in the bin - has to be done doesn't it, too scared to weigh myself!
Hope you're all ok and have had a fab christmas.
With love
TM x
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Post by littlelotty on Dec 30, 2008 20:32:57 GMT
Hi TM
Glad you had a good christmas and you sound in good spirits. I know what you feel like with the weight! I have eaten so much and the new year i will be on the diet and ready to lose the weigh so in the meantime i shall keep eating lol!!!!
Take care hun
Littlelotty xx
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Post by winegirl on Dec 31, 2008 9:26:11 GMT
Oh my god - you cracked a rib!! I was complaining as I have had that flu thing with the cough as well, but you really have been through it! Sending you huge hugs TM and glad you are still about to talk to us x
WG x
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Post by littlelotty on Jan 2, 2009 18:58:50 GMT
Hi TM
Hope you had a good new years eve and you are feeling a bit better.
Take care
Littlelotty xx
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Post by tabbysmum on Jan 2, 2009 19:47:36 GMT
Hi ladies
Happy New Year to you! I'm all snot and feeling sorry for myself but there's no sympathy in this house - got to take the pain!
With love
TM x
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Post by winegirl on Jan 2, 2009 19:49:58 GMT
LOL - know the feeling babes x
Hope you feel better soon so you can crack on with a brand new 2009!!
Love
WG x
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Post by littlelotty on Jan 2, 2009 19:50:06 GMT
Hope you are feeling better soon hun, lets hope you can put your feet up and relax for a bit and get better, take care hun and hope you are ok other than the cold.
Take care
Littlelotty xx
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Post by cokey on Jan 4, 2009 21:34:47 GMT
Hey you, how you doing? I hurt a rib once coughing (when I was pregnant no less) and its agony, so I have every sympathy for you. Can they do anything? I didn't get mine seen to because I was pregnant but surely they can strap you up lol
How are you otherwise?
Candice xxxx
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Post by littlelotty on Jan 5, 2009 20:57:29 GMT
How are you hun??
take care
Littlelotty xx
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Post by tabbysmum on Jan 5, 2009 21:36:21 GMT
Hi there LL
My nose is bright red and smeared in vaseline cos it's so sore, the glands in my neck are swollen, my eyes are puffy and my face is red and blotchy - sounds attractive doesn't it - and I'm really annoyed with my husband - silently fuming in fact, things are just great here!
Love L x
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Post by winegirl on Jan 5, 2009 21:39:18 GMT
Hey you.. whats up with hubby?? you ok mate?
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Post by cokey on Jan 6, 2009 11:13:35 GMT
whats up tm?
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Post by tabbysmum on Jan 7, 2009 12:52:29 GMT
Just so pissed off with Ed, he's bone idle and I'm starting to feel very resentful. They're only little things but they're all building up. I've felt shit all weekend and he's done absolutely nothing to help me, for example, I always have Tabitha at home on Monday but still have to work and I find it really hard trying to do both, when he came in I told him I was really stressed but come bathtime I still had to do it (because it was my turn!) and then when she'd gone to bed I had the dinner to do, sandwiches for work and I still had to work as I hadn't been able to get done what I needed to during the day as I had Tabitha to look after, feel like I might as well be on my own. I know these are the cries of millions of women all over the world but it's getting me down. He's always been really lazy and I accept that's how he is, I don't ask or expect him to help with the housework, I do everything as well as working fulltime, but I don't think it would hurt him to help more with Tabitha. On Sunday I was in agony with my rib but needed to go out and get me some lurgy drugs, he didn't offer to go, just said you're in no fit state to go out, but still didn't offer, in the end I had to ask him to come with me, and even then he huffed and puffed about how long it was going to take. I just don't know how to tackle him about it and in the meantime it's all building up to the point where I think I might as well pack my bags - I know it wont come to that but that's how it's making me feel. Sorry for going on, just need to get it off my chest really, can't tell my family cos they just think he's a lazy bastard anyway who takes advantage of me (although they do still like him!) which he is so have to try and deal with it myself. He's ill himself now, got a nasty bout of flu and again I feel resentful because he's just lying around do bugger all, keeping out of Tabitha's way as he doesn't want her to catch it, which I do understand, but I just can't help comparing the difference between when I'm ill and when he is, he's just asked me to go out and get him some spray for his sore throat, which I'll do happily, but all the time that little voice is there saying "you wouldn't do it for me would you", I just can't help it, have no tolerance left anymore. I know I have to speak to him about it, just need to pick my moment and plan for it I suppose.
Love TM x
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Post by winegirl on Jan 7, 2009 13:08:38 GMT
Hi TM
I think I have already given you any limited advice that I have in my PM to you. But I did want to send you love and hugs hun. I really feel for you and all you are having to put up with.
Yes, you do need to talk to him. You need to put the water works on and tell him how it really is. This is no good for you and you are not going to put up with it.
Let us know how the talk goes? Always here and listening mate xx
WG x
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