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Post by claire99991 on May 6, 2007 22:02:04 GMT
well family came yesterday bought hollie loads of new clothes, we went into town i treated myself to some sandals and a height chart for hollie from pound shop bargin! went for a meal last night was nice then phil got drunk and went to bed leaving me up on my owne hired a film was ok. Wanted to have a family day today but he was hungover so have been watching hollie today while he has done nothing and now he is in bed hope tomorow will be better Been watching news v upsetting about missing little girl really hope they find her safe.
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Post by claire99991 on May 7, 2007 15:52:36 GMT
went to durham for the day today wish was nice, and then we took hollie to the soft play again phil came with me so we had fun and she loved it just gonna clean my bedroom and wash up and we are ordering pizza for tea
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Post by winegirl on May 7, 2007 20:19:21 GMT
Hi Claire
Glad you had a nice day. Hope you enjoyed yor pizza after spending the rest of your afternoon as a domestic goddess!
Take Care
Winegirl x
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Post by clarey on May 7, 2007 21:03:04 GMT
Hi Claire, Mmmmm.... pizza. What a fab idea I could do with a pepperoni one. I've had a boring old salad Hope you have had a nice evening my lovely, Clareyxx
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Post by claire99991 on May 7, 2007 21:29:32 GMT
thanks girls pizza wasnt that nice nevermind i have a toothache its horrible i carnt even make a appointment because i just moved to the area and the nhs dentist im with is seing me 1st june. Might be able to get some kind of emergancy appointment but havent got anyone to watch hollie.
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Post by Jay on May 8, 2007 6:54:41 GMT
Wish I lived near so I could help you with dentist and look after Hollie for you. Hope you manage ok today. you might need painkillers with codiene in if pain really bad. Something like paracetamol and codiene, or I think there is now Ibruprofen and codiene. [This is the pharmacy tech side of me coming out!!] Plus I once had an abbess in a front tooth. ouchhh. Will be thinking about, you don't deserve to have toothache as well.
Am at work today, but will look later to see how you are. Take care, Jay xx
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Post by claire99991 on May 8, 2007 12:24:54 GMT
well toothache is still there but minimum pain infac i think if i wasnt thinking about it i wouldnt n0tice it i dont need painkillers just yet but have codeine in as i was given them after op so will take them if i need to. Im thinking now about when i need to put hollies name down for nursery and school she is 15 months but i dont know when i need to do this or how or which one i dont even know the closest to me im worried i tried to ring hv but of course there was no answer i feel really stupid not knowing this stuff i mean what if i leave it to late i havent even got the bloody guts to ring a school and ask what to do what kind of a crappy mum hasnt even got the confidence to make a phone call dunno what i will do. this is the 1st day on my owne since way before operation and im still unable to pick hollie up so its proving difficult just another 4 and half hours to go my life is so pointless at the mo i have nothing to look forward to and carnt even look after hollie im sure she would much prefer to be in the park or fresh air but im in to much pain to push the buggy down there and if im honest i probs wouldnt even if i could! anyway back to cbeebies!
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Post by caterina on May 8, 2007 15:41:18 GMT
Hi Claire Don't beat yourself up for not knowing about schools and stuff like that..I haven't a clue. Your HV is probably out on visits during the day but keep trying as it's their job to help you with this kind of thing and I'm sure they will advise you what to do for best. As for making phone calls I struggle with that as well sometimes as I don't want to take the chance that someone will be horrible to me! You're not alone hon! I'm sure Hollie is happy to spend time with you in the house and that you'll take her to the park when you feel ready, no point going if you're in pain, you've got to look after yourself! Thanks for post in my diary, maybe one day we'll make it to mums n tots! It just seems to take a lot of guts! Thinking of you xx
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Post by Jay on May 8, 2007 18:45:10 GMT
Hi Claire,
Today was just a horrible blip day. I think you and Hollie are fine. You will feel better from your op, and going out will get easier then.
Don't worry about the school thing. You will have a catchment area, which the hv should be able to point you in the right direction. Or you may find out about schools online.
Don't feel bad at not doing things. You are a bit poorly and recovering from the op, [and the scare that nearly came with it would have scared you].
We will always be here for you. Lots of love Jay xxx
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Post by winegirl on May 8, 2007 19:30:28 GMT
Claire
Cbeebies is fab and a great substitute for the park! Don't beat yourself up about not being able to get out with her at the mo, she will be happy to just be with you!
And if you find out the low down on when to register them with a school, let me know! I haven't a clue either and could probably do with knowing!
Take Care x
Winegirl x
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Post by gizmoracer on May 8, 2007 20:02:03 GMT
Hi Claire I was going to PM you to see how your first day alone was going. Its difficult when you can't physically take care of Hollie as well as you'd like especially on top of the PNI. Do you have a garden she can play in? Best of both worlds. In answer to our nursery question... I have just written a huge essay here then decided it was better suited on the general forum, take a look. I didn't want to take up all your space Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.
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Post by claire99991 on May 8, 2007 20:26:32 GMT
well so glad today is nealry over spent most of it crying havent eaten anything today feel a bit sick really and really tierd my side hurts so much and stomach where i had the operation but inside so its not scar ive probs done to much. Bloody dog barking at me all day which is driving me mad and hollie whingy she wont eat spat it out at me then broke into her easter egg and ate it all phil come home at 6 rather than 4.30 had to work late house is a tip as well so hope i feel better tomorow i feel really down today worse than i have done in a long time. Also i really want to make new friends in this area but its hard dont know where to start havent got the confidence to go to corner shop let alone a mums and toddlers group.
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Post by winegirl on May 8, 2007 20:39:30 GMT
Hi claire
I also have no friends im my area and lack the confidence to go to a mother and toddler group. This isvery unlike me as have spent my whole life super confident and surrounded by people. It can get quiet tough sometimes being at home alone all day wit the little ones, but I now actually really enjoy it and see it as `our' time.
Perhaps there may be a sure start programme in your area which could be a great way of making new friends? Or maybe you could join anexcercies class or something as that may also be a good start? (crikey - need to start taking my own advice!))
Have a lovely evening x
Winegirl x
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Post by claire99991 on May 9, 2007 11:46:46 GMT
ok its nearly 1pm still in nighty and hollie still in pj's ive rang phil and told him really struggling today so work are letting him come home at 2 so he can take hollie to docs she has a rash on her mouth, im in so much pain around scar area and feel sick and so tierd phil thinks i might have bug so he has made me make a appointment at gp today to make sure wound isnt infected or anything so that is at 3.40 i think its just cos im on my owne and she is crawling all over me plus i havent had a period in 8 weeks because they removed 1 of my ovary's its messed it all up maybe im coming on. That might be why feel tearful been crying again this morning just carnt cope with being in pain and running around after hollie she wants me to chase her at the min keeps coming up to me laughing and running away.
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Post by Jay on May 9, 2007 15:55:21 GMT
Sorry you feel so bad today. Let us know what the Dr says about you and Hollie. It is awful to feeling in stuggling mode, and to be tearful all the time. It is also hard recovering from your operation and having a little one around. I wish I could make things better for you. Love Jay xx
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