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Post by caterina on May 9, 2007 18:47:40 GMT
Hi Claire Wish I could do something to help you hon. BIG HUGS xxx
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Post by claire99991 on May 9, 2007 20:28:33 GMT
Well phil came home from work early and took hollie to docs for me she has dermitits (spelling ? ) on her face probs allergic reaction to her dummy and i went and she said ive overdone things and probs pulled the stitches inside so if the pain doesnt settle she wants hospital to have a look at me in couple of days but i think ill be ok if i rest she said she doesnt want me doing anything at all including looking after hollie and suggested foster care for a couple of weeks which i said no to we have decided she can go to a private nursery in the day at least i get her home on the night so that starts tomorow, not happy about the fact she will be away from me but if i dont get better i will end up back in hospital. also have to go have a blood test in the morning as i feel really tierd and she wants to check for anemia although i think its just a mixture of pnd, and recovering.
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Post by caterina on May 9, 2007 20:42:21 GMT
Don't feel bad about the nursery, Hollie will have a great time and it'll give you a chance to look afer yourself and heal properly. xx
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Post by sianyc on May 9, 2007 21:12:14 GMT
Hollie really will have a good time. Both of mine go to a nursery two days a week and after the initial few days of settling in have loved it ever since. It'll be good for her to play with the other babies so try not to worry. You need to rest and this is a good opportunity for you to do just that
Take care x
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Post by gizmoracer on May 9, 2007 22:02:58 GMT
I agree with the others, nursery will be great for her. You may even notice her valuing spending time with you and it is a good way to meet a few people. Concider it a treat for you both and enjoy.
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Post by helenr on May 9, 2007 22:21:10 GMT
Hi hun,
just tryingto catch up. Please take care of yourself, Hollie needs you well physically as well. Nursery will be great for her, I've noticed such a difference in L since he started going, and his speach is coming on a treat. I know you feel guilty (don't we all). lova and hugs x
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Post by claire99991 on May 9, 2007 22:26:40 GMT
I actually agree with all of you i think she will love playing with other babies she is very sociable its just me who will miss her im not worried about her settling in or anything i know she willbe away and thats it she will have a great day. They have asked about her naps and food etc which is good they get lots of fruit snacks and a two course lunch the babies under 2 get put down for a nap about 1.30-2 which is fine with me as she has a nap. Its quite expensive 150 pounds per week wondering if i will be able to claim any of it back since im sick and unable to care for her and phil is working full time.
Still in pain tonight guess it will take a few days of rest before i start to feel better again.
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Post by Jay on May 10, 2007 8:27:47 GMT
Hi Claire,
Pm me any time you like for a chat, I will look in on and off, to see if there are any messages.
Try to use the time to rest.
Bugger the house work, I hate it and don't really do much. When the dust gets too bad I have to hoover it, but not too often, as I would not recognise my home if it was too clean!!!
Sorry I can't do much to help, but I can listen if you need a moan or a chat about anything. Take care, I send my love Jay xx
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Post by claire99991 on May 10, 2007 11:40:55 GMT
Well hollie went of fine this morning didnt look back so thats good bet she is having a good day she is being picked up at 4.30-5ish, got up at 7 with her got her ready and gave her breakfast before she went and then went to get my blood taken they couldnt do it as veins arent great so asked me to go to hospitla problem is i carnt get there so just gonna have it done monday when ive got another appointment at docs. Trying to find pet insurance gonna ring one up for a quote in a min (yes me actually phone someone ) have rang the vet this morning and registered him because he has something wrong with his ears there swollen and red and need looking at so taking him at 6. Always something going on in this house never boring! Wish my period would start was due 3 weeks ago bit because i had a ovary removed i have no idea when i will get it but i think the hormones are still there and gettng worse cos havent come on had some spotting in the night but nothing else. dont know if this is ok consultant did say it would take a while before they returned so just have to wait and see. pain better all ready so must have been doing to much. Just need to get my doggy sorted now he is my 2nd baby lol. ;D
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Post by gizmoracer on May 10, 2007 12:39:15 GMT
Glad you're feeling a bit better today, it helps when you know your little one is being well looked after and having fun, but you still get some time to yourself. Did you ever get that picture that I sent you working? I have it pinned on my fridge And thanks for replying in my diary to, its nice to have a few regular people check in on you.
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Post by Jay on May 11, 2007 8:26:32 GMT
Hi Claire,
Hope today goes ok for you. Will be thinking about you Jay xx
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Post by claire99991 on May 11, 2007 15:35:03 GMT
well got my period today so im hoping some of the tearfulness will go away soon. Not a lot else to put having a quiet day been watching day time tele bit rubbish phil should be home soon then we can go get hollie and its the weekend so he is home with me havent done anything out of my comfort zone today
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Post by claire99991 on May 11, 2007 20:40:37 GMT
well me and my phil have just had a argument so i feel rubbish now we havent argued in ages, basically what it is he has had pain in his back for ages now and its there every day its around the bottom of his lung but he wont go to the doctors he just takes pain medication every day. He hates going to thedoctors and never goes hasnt been in 10 years im so worried about him though but he says he wants to wait till im better before he goes. Thing is it just gives me more to worry about im so scared its something serious i know at 24 its probs just muscle pain from his job (plumber and heating engineer) but i would rather be sure so i have stormed of he is in the front room now. I dont want to fall out but he wont listen to me if i just talk, also he is still on trial at work was meant to find out today if he is being kept on and the boss said he willl let him kow next friday rather than this week because a sink he did leaked after he had fixed it or something so thats more stress. I really want to have a nice weekend but i carnt for worrying now
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Post by gizmoracer on May 12, 2007 7:57:23 GMT
Ergh Men I know excatly what you mean. My Steve had been getting chest pains for ages and ages before I finally managed to get him to see a doc. I think men are more scared thats its something serious and would rather be ignorant of it. Anyway he had pulled a muscle thakfully. Had all the symptoms of a heart attack, so yeah like you say chances are its the same sort of thing, but theres no telling them is there.
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Post by Jay on May 13, 2007 19:17:07 GMT
How are you doing Claire.
I had a nice panic attack while out today. I thought I was going to faint as well, but ended up shaking all over and in tears!!! Its a damn nuisance, isn't it. Purhaps we need a thread called the panic club, we could probably get that one filled up quicker!!!
Hope your weekend got better.
I send a hug to you, Jay xx
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