Thank you so much both of you for the support. Im not sure how I write
I just type as it comes into my head. Tonight my thoughts are rather jumbled and going in circles due to total exhaustion.
Are you still in Aus TinC?
Anyway onto todays and yesterdays post....
I thought I was doing quite well yesterday, I had to be at my one on one therapy at 9.30 but my watch was fast and I started panicking cos I thought I was late. Then I couldn't find a parking space, so in the end I arrived out of breath and almost hyperventilating due to anxiety only to find out I was on time!
The session wasnt that good, my head was so spaced out, perhaps due to the meds and the anxiety and the fact I go into a total terror thing when I go out these days. She asked questions and I tryed to answer but I kept going of at a tangent. I was glad when it was over. As soon as it had finished it was time for my group therapy - its in the same building - 3 people didnt turn up which I think is a shame, at least in the group noone judges you and we all know what each other is going through.
We started off by watching a video on PND I think it was filmed in the 70's! Then we had to say how we where affected by the illness and a bit about how we felt about it. To be honest I was so terrified I couldnt speak, I couldnt get the oxygen into my lungs to talk. It was scary.
Not everyone got a chance to speak (one being me - obviously) and we are suppose to say our experiences next week, but the last thing we had to do before leaving was say if the session had helped in anyway.
I actually managed to blurt out that I felt slightly less anxious this week than I did last week, ha if last week was 100% this week was 99% big improvement aye! They did say that next week we will be focusing on anxiety so I am hoping that will help me.
After the meeting it was time to go to work, I grabbed a slice of choccy cake on the way out that someone had brought and figured that will have to be my lunch.
Work was uneventful except the PA kept coming in to ask me questions about computers, I know its my job but I really wasnt up for it. I tired to hide in my office as well as I could till hometime.
Today was a mixed day. My SIL turned up she bought me a book of quote about motherhood, I couldnt read it - It made me cry - I thanked her and said when I am stronger I will read it, I had a major anx attack while she was here, shakes and stammering, its the fact I had to interact with someone who isnt immediate family. She told me that years ago she had councelling and meds for anxiety and told me about the things she did to try and combat it. She offered to come around with a load of boxes to 'clean out all my crap' she thinks if my house is uncluttered so my head will be too.
I declined, I dont have that much to get rid off plus having my stuff around makes me feel safe. I feel safest in the bedroom where I can hide under the duvet. I have a TV in there and a LOT of books and lots of photos of friends back home in the UK. Its my sanctuary.
After she left I managed to calm down, I decided I needed to listen to music - not an easy thing when the 3 yo loves to watch kids TV - she has to have it on even when its not being watched!
I managed to get her drawing on the table - well on paper on the table. and turned the TV down and put some music on.
I had to laugh, her face lit up and she came and danced with me! It was so much fun, james was sat on the floor laughing at us.
I felt really good and like I had really connected with Abi.
Im very tired now, meds make me sleepy
g'night
xx