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Post by kb on Dec 20, 2006 14:14:22 GMT
Hugs KL, I'm sorry you had such a hard night. You're doing a great job. Its really hard when the little ones are ill and you have to keep going even when you've had no sleep. I feel your pain, I said exactly the same things as you about feeling that the family would be better off without me and that I wanted to escape but I didn't know where to. As hard as it is to believe, it will get better. You're family do need you and they want you to be around. Try to be kind to yourself. Is there someone who could look after you little one for half an hour to let you get your head down or have a quiet cup of coffee. I agree about being specific with your man and about talking in the daytime about big topics, but I know it isn't easy at this time of the year.
Love
K x
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Post by kl77 on Dec 21, 2006 8:14:17 GMT
Thanks everyone.
Not very much to report - little man had a better night so hopefully he is recovering.
Went to hospital yesterday afternoon. Consultant examined his hips and said it doesn't appear to be out of the socket but there is some reason for the problems. Sent us for x rays and said he was going into theatre so would ring me today once he's looked at the x rays. Fingers crossed.
P has his final interview tonight so fingers crossed again!!!
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Post by beverley on Dec 21, 2006 9:20:50 GMT
Hi KL,
Glad you all got a little more sleep last night - it can make all the difference.
Let us know when you hear from the doc, and lots of luck to P for the interview.
xxx
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Post by kl77 on Dec 21, 2006 10:14:05 GMT
Consultant has just rung - he has reviewed the x rays and there is nothing to worry about YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Best Christmas present ever - someone is answering my wishes. Thank you all for your support through this worrying time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by winegirl on Dec 22, 2006 19:56:20 GMT
Hi KL
Fab news - sorry couldn't get to post sooner - had some technical difficulties! Really please all is good with the x rays and now you can concentrate on having yourself a fab xmas!!!!
Take care Winegirl x
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Post by kl77 on Dec 24, 2006 19:07:55 GMT
Thanks Winegirl x Quick update - P got the job!!!! Company car, salary increse of 6 grand plus big bonus! Merry Christmas to us - my darling little mister is ok and P has his job.
Thanks again everyone for the support and merry xmas xxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by monica on Dec 25, 2006 21:03:42 GMT
Hi
Glad you've had good news all round. Hope you feel better and have a great Xmas.
Love
Monica
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Post by cheshire on Dec 27, 2006 17:44:13 GMT
Great to hear of your news Hopefulx
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Post by chica on Dec 30, 2006 11:01:18 GMT
Hi KL, So sorry I have not been around to help or support you, I have just been catching up with our diary, you have certainly been through it. I can so relate to everything you have said, believe you me I have been there and got the blooming t shirt. Exhaustion is one of my biggest problems too. It makes everything seem so much blacker. But what fantastic news about little ones hips and as for the new job, did I not say that I was sure that fate was taking a hand and that around the corner would be so much brighter for you all. On that note, we are all on a very twisty road at the moment emotionally and physically, so if this road has turned out okay, then I just know that the next bend round the road will be the one that leads to our recoveries. So I am sending you lots of love and hugs your way for a smooth journey. Love Chica
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Post by sianyc on Jan 7, 2007 8:43:46 GMT
hey KL
Just caught up with your good news. I'm so pleased for you - this illness is hard enough to deal with without any extra stress.
I hope you all had a good Xmas and new year x
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Post by kl77 on Apr 7, 2008 10:05:49 GMT
It's been a long long time since I put anything on here, been a regular visitor to catch up with what's going on with everyone else though. Things have been going OK, went back to work last April, had a childminders nightmare so little man is at nursery at hospital where I work now. Work was good for getting me back into routine but I seem to be forever off cos little man has infections or tummy bugs which doesn't go down well with bosses! My mum has suffered with depression for last 8 years of varying degrees and at the minute it is at it's worst, I'm having to call each day to make sure she is eating and taking her meds. My mother in law died 8 weeks ago fom alcohol induced liver disease- no one even knew she was alcoholic. I had her admitted to hospital agianst her will on the Sunday and she died on the Wednesday. Apparently she had been drinking heavily for the last 6 years since my father in law commited suicide. Have had last 3 weeks off cos been struggling to cope with mum's depression and greiving for mum in law as well as dealing with the terrible two's ( struggling to keep my face straight when little man does something he knows he shouldn't but gives himself away by laughing) My husband, last night, said he's going to committ suicide and it was the straw that broke the camels back as they say. This site isn't probably most appropriate but don't really know where else to go
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Post by winegirl on Apr 7, 2008 19:28:57 GMT
Hi KL
I am sooo glad you have come back to us when you needed us babes.
So sorry for everything that had happened to you and your family recently. And i am really sorry for your husband whe really has hit a low. Do you think he may go to the GP to try and get some help through this time?
How are you coping today babes? It is so lovely to hear from you and i am just so sorry it is under such rough circumastances. is there anything we can do to help?
Will always be here for you mate xx
Take Care
WG x
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Post by kl77 on Apr 8, 2008 20:33:20 GMT
Hi Winegirl Thanks so much for the support, I rememeber you standing out last time, along with many others, who always knew what to say!
Today not been too bad a day. OH has agreed to go see the GP on Friday so hopefully he can open up to them and we can start to process the last few months and try to accept it and 'move on'. I know this will never happen for him completely but I don't want to explain to my son that daddy commited suicide like grandad and I suppose like grandma but by a longer process. Spent afternoon with my mum, she was a little cofused and repetitive but on the whole a little brighter than she has been recently. I'm on sick at present but still taking little man to nursery on a morning to allow me some head space and time to get jobs done that have been piling up and just adding to the stress. At the minute he seems to be coughing all night so I feel shattered. Still made it to the gym tonight though- hoping that losing weight and exercising may lift my mood a little. Did wonder while I was on the treadmill if I was going to die cos seemed to be having palpitations and pains everywhere but I accept that it's probably cos I'm tired and because I'm so low I fixate on every little thing. Bed is calling, hopefully exercise will help me sleep, even when little man sleeps through I wake at about 2am and don't get back off til about 5. Trouble is i generally have to get up at 6 and I'm in a deep deep sleep when the time comes! It would be my day off tomorrow if I was at work so little man doesn't go to nursery, looking forward to a full day with him. Lots of jigsaws to be done and books to be read!!!!! Hopefully the sun will shine for a bit of the day to give us chance to play out! x
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Post by winegirl on Apr 8, 2008 21:40:01 GMT
Hi KL
Your day tomorrow sounds just like the one i have planed with mine! Wednesday is my day off too and i have decided that tomorrow is going to be a jobs free day, sod the state of the carpets, its gonna be reading, painting and the park. (quite excited myself!)
Well done on the gym hun, dont know how you do it. I find the treadmill a killer myself!
Hope everything goes ok for hubby on friday. Let us know how things go?
Thinking of you babes and have a fab day tomorrow!!
WG x
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Post by kl77 on Apr 9, 2008 20:02:25 GMT
Had a lovely day with little man and my mum today. Little mister stayed in bed til 9 am this morning- I was up fretting cos he was late up! Played this morning then went to feed the ducks and play in the parks, he was so cute, throwing bread for the ducks and geese which were stood at his feet saying ' Ta quack quacks- nice' Only down point was rejoining slimming world tonight. Feel like I've got a mountain to climb and just feel out of control in so mnay aspects of my life. Feel like there is so much that needs changing I don't know where to start and that makes me less motivated to start making changes. The diet starts in the morning and I'm due at the gym tomorrow night too so hopefully the baby steps will do the trick. Mum seemed a little better today, not as confused and a little brighter, she had a really good apetite too. Bed is calling me already x
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