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Post by cheshire on Apr 22, 2009 18:33:32 GMT
Hi Shell,
I'm a bit worried I might say the wrong thing - but just want you to know that we are all here for you and thinking of you x
Get the assessment done and keep strong - you will get there.
Be good to yourself if you can,
Hopefulxx
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Post by monica on Apr 22, 2009 19:01:43 GMT
Hi
I know this is another hurdle to get through but you can and will do it. You have been doing really well - you've got yoru nursery placement which you're enjoying and are building a 'life' for yourself so that is evidence you are on the right track. I presume you can show by the no of hospital admissions to a&e that they are becoming less frequent too. I know your cpn gave you a positive assessment a while back.
Please please fight this - all the above will come out in any psychological assessment. You love Jack and this is about him.
You mentioned they said Jack has the emotional age of 18 mth child - what do you think of this? Is it true?
Love and hugs
Monica
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Post by bean on Apr 22, 2009 19:45:34 GMT
Hi Shell
Im so angrry that they are holding this part of you against you, you are fighting this so hard and im in such admiration of this i know you can do this now.
I know how this may affect you but you must stay strong now and call upon us all to help you, you can prove to them that you can see jack and he needs to see you.
You have my moby hun, please if you are struggling, let me help, dont let the dark win...
Sending love to you
bean xxx
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Post by chica on Apr 23, 2009 8:34:51 GMT
Hi Shell,
I know I dont post in the diary section very often, but I do try and keep looking in to see how you are, so my apologies for not posting for a long time, but I promise I am always thinking of you.
Please try not to let the court case defeat you, you are a very amazing lady, you have come so far, I watched your montage again this morning and the love for your little one, positively ooses out of the screen, and I am sure that the assessment will go in your favour. It is maybe that final hurdle that you have to cross. Do you know when the psychological assessment will take place yet?
Sending you much love and huge amounts of strength, you can do this!!!!!!
Chica
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Post by bean on Apr 23, 2009 9:57:16 GMT
Hi Shell
How you doing hun? Are you in nursery today?
Hope you're ok.
love and hugs
beany x
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Post by bean on Apr 25, 2009 10:55:14 GMT
Hi Shell
Just wondering if you're ok chic. You know where i am.
luv bean xx
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Post by monica on Apr 28, 2009 21:03:12 GMT
Hi Shell
how are you doing?
thinking of you
Love
Monica
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Post by michelle79 on Apr 29, 2009 17:07:02 GMT
Not coping very well with this court/jack thing. Thought I was over it until monday when I had psychology and was talking about it and then that night was in such a state I self harmed badly and had to go to a & e so now because I was so stupid it will go against me as when they want medical reports that will be in it. STUPID PERSON I AM. I just cant seem to help myself. I always have to make things worse.  |
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Post by winegirl on Apr 29, 2009 20:33:02 GMT
HI Shell
Look, it was one blip. That just sets you back a wee bit but now you can work again at kicking it hun! Try not to be too despondent, we all know you can do it xx
Have you been in the nursery this week? Hows it going there??
WG xx
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Post by monica on May 6, 2009 17:34:23 GMT
Hi
It's abeen a few days - how are you? S/h is your release from stressful situations - talking about it with psycologist brought it on. youare not stupid - as wg said it's a blip which will pass. .you been doing brilliantly.
Love
Monica
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Post by michelle79 on May 10, 2009 13:14:38 GMT
Hi
Theres been no more self harm since last monday so hopefully I can keep it that way! Now I am 30 (argh) I have made a promise to myself that I will not self harm anymore and that I will get better and learn to cope in other ways! I really hope I manage it.
Went back to court on friday (got letter of the appt on thursday - talk about short notice lol) and they have decided on one of the specialist psychologists who will be contacted within the next 14 days and he has to file his report by 25th sept then we go back to court to go over it and hopefully agree on contact being reinstated. The solicitor is sending me forms out for me to sigh to give my consent for them to access my medical records and notes from both hospitals, my doctors, my cpn and my psychiatrist so they going to have a lot of reading to do! My solicitor tried again with getting some form of contact but they just flatly refused and wouldnt discuss it. The only good thing about the assessment is that sometime during it he wants to do some observations with me and Jack so at least I see him then.
Shell xxx
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Post by michelle79 on May 10, 2009 13:15:06 GMT
oh forgot to add - i am still at the nursery and loving it. going to be increasing my hours.
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Post by cheshire on May 10, 2009 13:54:33 GMT
Brilliant! Sounds like you found your vocation in life! Big hugs xx
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Post by bean on May 10, 2009 21:24:09 GMT
Hi SHell
Sorry I missed your birthday, Happy Birthday to you - welcome to the flirty thirties!!
Sorry i missed you last week too, but you have bounced back and sound really positive, this nursery placement sounds like a really good thing for you, are you studying a qualification there too?
Thats really good you'll get to see Jack for the assessments, something for you to focus on and look forward to.
You can beat this self harm, you've been doign soo well and do not need to beat yourself up for blipping, you can do it differently, you can make that decision, i have faith in you chic.
Take care
lots of luv
bean xx
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Post by chica on May 11, 2009 7:30:10 GMT
Hi Shell,
Well done on no self harm since last Monday, you can do it I know you can. As for reaching your 30s.. try seeing it as a new decade and a new life!! Just wait till your fast approaching 45 like me EEEK!
Glad to hear that there has been some more progress with the courts and for your assessment, as you say, it means that at long last you will get to see Jack.
It is also good to hear, that your nursery work is going so well too.
Sending you much love
Chica
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