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Post by winegirl on Apr 25, 2008 8:20:03 GMT
Oh hun wish I had been around last night to chat with you!
How are you feeling this morning? Are things looking any brighter?
You are a good mum and a lovely person I am so sorry you are feeling so down babes.
I am at work at the mo, so will be back on line tonight to see how you are doing.
Thinking of you xx
WG xx
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Post by Bobyn on Apr 26, 2008 12:55:18 GMT
Hi lovely,
Come on now, read back over your diary and you'll see that you're not 'just concerned about myself and my love life' as you say here. You're always concerned about other people and especially A. You're just stuck in a horrible blip and you will get out of it one day. I really think you're special Nishka and the thing with Mr F is just your way of making yourself feel worth something to someone and give yourself some distraction. But you are already worth something to A and to all your family.
Please, please, please sit your OH down this weekend and tell him straight how you've been feeling, and your Mum for that matter. You really need to share your thoughts and feelings with those who are closest to you so that they can try to feel you get better and move on from this rut that you've found yourself in.
Truly, only you can make yourself happy, not Mr F, not your OH, not anyone, but you. You need to sit down and consider exactly what it is that is at the root of this unhappiness because we can all see this truly marvellous and loving person just dying to get out. Please consider going to your GP this week and telling them what's going on with you, some time off work, away from Mr F might help, and so might some counselling to get you to open up to your true feelings.
Good luck Nishka, you lovely, lovely lady, I'll be thinking of you sweetheart, Bobsie xxxx
P.S There are moments for all of us during PNI when we've felt like we wished we hadn't had our children I'm sure so don't feel guilty about that, just accept that feeling and move on. A is here now and she thinks you're the centre of her universe. Things WILL get better Nishka. xxxx
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Post by winegirl on Apr 26, 2008 19:40:03 GMT
Hi Nishka
How has today been for you hun? You feeling any better at all?
You are so fab hun I really hope that your weekend is looking a bit brighter for you xx
WG x
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Post by sianyc on Apr 28, 2008 18:47:16 GMT
I don't have anything to add to what Bobyn has said but just wanted you to know that I'd read what you'd written and am thinking of you x
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Post by winegirl on Apr 28, 2008 19:21:34 GMT
Hi Nishka,
Havent heard from you for a few days and just wondered if you were ok??
Thinking of you hun xx
Luv
WG x
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Post by nishka on Apr 29, 2008 20:27:53 GMT
Hiya everyone
Thank you for replying. Just wanted to let you know I haven't fallen off the face of the earth.. I have taken your advice and have a few days holiday from work - I am back on Thursday. Its been quite nice to be at home and try and get some things organised around the house and to spend some time just being a mum with A - its made me realise I can do it!!
Hubby and I are getting on a lot better, not being at work helps. Not being around Mr F makes me realise how special hubby is to me.. We even made love last night!! (Shock horror!!)
I don't know whats wrong with me, perhaps everything at work is too much for me... esp with Mr F and all the rest of it. Right now it seems a million miles away.
I will write again in a few days. Thank you all for thinking of me, thats really nice to know that people care.
Speak with you all soon, hope you are all ok xxxx
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Post by winegirl on Apr 29, 2008 20:50:36 GMT
Hi Nishka
Oh hun so pleased that the time off has helped! Maybe you might start thinking about a new job? Especially as it appears that it is your job that is adding to so much of your pressure, especially with Mr F around!
Enjoy the rest of your time of babes, really great to hear you have ben doing good xx
Take Care
WG xx
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Post by Bobyn on Apr 30, 2008 15:11:51 GMT
Nishka,
That's the best news I've heard from you in ages. Long may this good, positive feeling continue lovely.
Lots and lots and lots of hugs and love, Bobyn xxx
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Post by sianyc on May 2, 2008 12:32:06 GMT
That's fab lovely. Hope work has been ok yesterdday and today x
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