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Post by monica on Feb 22, 2008 22:33:29 GMT
Hi
I agree with Winegirl please get in touch with police - they have to do something - what an awful thing to do. Please try and remember even though this girl (or whoever) is destroying your baby's headstone, she will never be able to take away the memories you have of baby Alan.
I'm so pleased the scrap book has made you feel positive about yourself. It's something just for you.
Congrats on your job offer. I believe Virgin are really hard to get into so you must have wowed them.
Monica
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Post by rebecca on Feb 25, 2008 19:25:06 GMT
Thank you all for your congratualtions, I have reported her to the police and cleared my sons grave to the best as i can. I don't feel any different with these antidepresants just feel like a zombie 24.7. I was really looking forward to my weekend as me and my cuz was going to East Grinstead and i love it there and i thought it would be nice to get out of Birmingham but i just felt so down all weekend and feel so down now i just don't know whats going on  xxx |
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Post by gizmoracer on Feb 25, 2008 19:43:31 GMT
Rebecca hun that defacing is not on the photos themselves, someone has put the photo into a program like paint and then computor scribbled over it and e-mailed to you.
Its still a terrible thing to do but it does hold hope that the photos are still in tacked. I hope that makes you feel a little better. what happened with the police?
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Post by rebecca on Feb 25, 2008 19:51:01 GMT
she wont give them me:'( . I told them about the first time my sons grave had been graffited on and they said they can't just go on my word that she done it! then when it happend the second time i showed them all the pictures everything to show them she is that stupid!! she admitted she done it in a email. I really applogise if i seem in a horrible mood i am just so fed up xx
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Post by gizmoracer on Feb 25, 2008 19:59:59 GMT
Don't apologies, I understand and quite how you haven't done something seriously nasty back is beyond me. I'm afraid I don't really have any answers. I've never been through anything like this but it does sound as though your not getting alot of help. All I can do is offer support and hope everything calms down for you soon. With regards your meds, you may need to go back to the doc. There are loads of different ones and they all work differently. Perhaps these are not the ones for you. Also look to the future, you have a great new job to look forward to and a change of location will do you the world of good, the best part is you won't have to leave any of us behind (assuming of coase we are helping) as the internet can be accessed from all over.
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Post by Veritee on Feb 26, 2008 0:35:48 GMT
Dear Rebecca
I have PM'ed you
That means I have left a personal message for you.
If you look toward the top of the forum - where it says - 'you have *** messages * are new' and click this you should be able to read my message, please read it as it is important
Veritee
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Post by Veritee on Feb 26, 2008 15:09:25 GMT
left another PM for you
I apologize sincerely for anything I said that may have hurt and for any misunderstanding
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Post by winegirl on Feb 26, 2008 15:21:59 GMT
Hi Rebecca
Dont apologise for being in a bad mood, you have every right to be!! Have you talked to your family about your ex friend to see if they have any suggestions as to what to do with it?
Try to focus on the future hun. You have an ace new job coming up which baby alan would be really proud about! I know i wish I had had a job that would have had me jetting off round the world! How lucky are you!! What do you do for the airline at the mo? Do you enjoy it?
Have you had any more thoughts about that rose bush? Keep thinking positive hun, dont let this girl drag you down. xx
WG x
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Post by rebecca on Feb 26, 2008 17:24:31 GMT
i spoke to my auntie today first time ive sat down and let it all out. I cant wait to start my job I did a BTEC national in travel and tourism in my first year at collegei got my A level but then i had to get moved to deplomer and the college lectures where very supportive and let me do a NCFE in air cabin crew. I went to training day where we had to do all the safety demostrations inflight meal service smoke filled cabin putting a little fire ( micheal had a control pressed a button and there could be a fire in the oven seat or toilet) and i passed. Then at the end of that day Sue came up to me and a girl called Amy and said how impressed she was with all our practical skills and Theory skills (we got distincitions) and we got offerd the job. its a scary and big move but a move i have to do.
And yes i have i really want to plant it in a place called Bidford it is a way out of Birmingham but a place that is really special to me my nan has a very good friend who lives in the house on the river and has the most beautiful gardens so i havnt told her the reason why but ive asked if i can plant a rosebush there and she said yes. Im going to talk to Alan about it (we are on much better terms now actually managed to have a decent conversation) i told him about the idea of a rosebush and he loves the idea so i have to thank you once again for sugesting it. Im going back to the doctors tomorrow to talk about my anti depresents i dont know if i have to give them more time or if these just are not the ones for me xxx
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Post by winegirl on Feb 26, 2008 17:39:55 GMT
Hi Rebecca
Oh yes I know Bidford, I hope you find the perfect rose bush hun xx
I think you are so brave to take that move in your job, but one you will never forget!! You really should be so proud of yourself!!
I hope your appointment goes ok for you tomorrow. Normally it takes 2-3 weeks for side effects to ease off and the benefits to kick in, so I would hang on for as long as possible. The first meds I was on really werent for me and after 3 weeks I had to come off them, but the second lot they tried me on were perfect. I dont think they are ever a magic pill (my gp told me to view them as a life jacket), but certainly helped me get my life back.
I hope you feel better for talking to your auntie, was she supportive? Sometimes having someone to let it all out to is a great help, and you know we are always here for you too xx
WG x
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Post by rebecca on Feb 26, 2008 17:53:27 GMT
she was really supportive i know it's probably hard to understand my family from what you know but this is the first member of my family who has asked me questions who asked me what baby alan was like who asked me to tell her how i was feeling so it helped alot. That is a great deffoniton for the meds its like they can only help you so much well we'll see what they say tomorrow. And i will find the best Rose bush for Baby Alan. Thank you all once again for always being here xxxx
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Post by winegirl on Feb 26, 2008 18:05:03 GMT
Do let us know what the doctors say hun xx
WG xx
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Post by bam02 on Feb 26, 2008 18:24:48 GMT
It would be good to know luv how you get on. its so good you spoke to your Aunt.
We all need someone...
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Post by winegirl on Feb 27, 2008 11:43:32 GMT
Hi Rebecca
Hope everything goes ok for you today at the doctors. Thinking of you xxx
WG xx
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Post by rebecca on Feb 29, 2008 15:52:40 GMT
Hello sorry i havnt been around well i went to my doctors and they have upped the meds which have made me feel even more spaced. I was telling the doctor how i was feeling and she was not intrested at all just looked at me as though i was talking another language so im really annoyed about that. xxxxx
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